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    How many times?

    How many times you can consider is normal to have sex a day?
  • cathy23
    Member
    • Oct 2011
    • 69

    with me, I'd say it depends on the guy, the mood, and time(?)

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    • Romy
      Veteran Member
      • Jan 2014
      • 339

      Definitely depends on many factors but if push comes to shove I would say one to two times a day. But you really have to put this into context. A new mum is not about to have sex daily, a couple working full time and long hours probably aren't going to be having sex daily - unless of course they are still in the early stages of their relationship...so many things come into play here. What's normal for one couple isn't for another couple. It's what works for you and your partner. There's no right or wrong answer.

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      • LilahX
        Veteran Member
        • Jan 2010
        • 291

        There is no answer as there are so many variables. How long you've been in the relationship, mood, tiredness, daily life. Individual libido. Sexual compatability. Normal is what works for a couple at that particular stage of their lives/relationships. Sex is different for men and women and different thing affect their desire for it.As long as there is open and honest communication and the maintenance of intimacy (as opposed to sex) then sex stays an important (but changing) part of their relationship.

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        • Lovcookie
          Veteran Member
          • May 2010
          • 222

          Normal as in take the average over one year. I have had sex 12 times in one day but it is not the average. It depends on your sex drive, your partners and the chemistry between the both of you. I have averaged 6 or 7 a day over a few months but of course the average drops over a year. With one partner it was at first 3 times of week and dropped to once a month after 2 years. With another sex was at least 6 days of week and multiple times during the day.
          In my opinion sex is critically important to the long term health of a relationship

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