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  • Cows
    Junior Member
    • Aug 2014
    • 1

    Amping things up....tips and ideas?

    Hey guys! This is my first post, and I was curious about ideas of how to spice things up and keep things interesting with my BF. I've been gone for a month and want to surprise him when I get back SO what are some things that you like to do when you're away from your SO for a length of time?

    A little back story of sorts, when we first started dating he was super sweet and gentle. Which is fine, but I'm not into that, I like it a little rougher.But I'd never been with anyone long enough or with the right person who wants to go that little bit above for me.... SO we'd been getting into more of the holding each other down, hair pulling, biting, and sort of 'tamer' thing like that.....we wanna sort of amp things up and take it to the next level so to speak....try tying each other up and things like that....so I'm looking at little stepping stones of things we can do to make things more interesting. I want to please him and he wants to please me so really we're both interested in trying anything.


    So what are some things to try?? We're open to all sorts of things so everything will be considered
    I really just wanna surprise him when I get home!!!!!
  • BigRed
    Member
    • Aug 2014
    • 20

    It sounds to me like the next logical step for you would be spanking, hand cuffs, blindfolds, choking, etc.

    I am not into the pain stuff myself but I would assume if you are already hair pulling/biting and you are looking to ramp things up then these would be your best bet.

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    • PhrendlyPhil
      Member
      • Jul 2013
      • 96

      A nice slippery sloppy deep throat blow job followed by a messy facial will certainly surprise him!

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