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  • BigRed
    Member
    • Aug 2014
    • 20

    Men: Masturbation Tip

    When masturbating just before you are about to cum men can use their other hand to push on the muscle between their butt and balls and you will be able to achieve orgasm without the mess.

    Figured I'd put this out here on this forum after I went back into the archives and read an interesting thread on masturbation at work. For some reason this little trick is not well known. I have been doing it for years and it definitely helps not having to clean up every time (plus it allows you to save sperm for when you actually cum).
  • sexy brenda
    Member
    • Oct 2013
    • 44

    Why on earth should you not want to shoot the cum all over, why repress the action. If I toss off my lover I want to see it all shoot out, and if possible shoot all over me. I always thought men likes to shoot.

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    • Baboy
      Veteran Member
      • Aug 2012
      • 774

      BigRed,

      I'm not sure the semen is being "saved". It's being directed into the bladder.

      That of which you speak is, I believe, a form of induced retrograde ejaculation. Wikipedia has a good description of same and, as well, it describes the "little trick" you are sharing here. You will find the relevant passage under the heading "Myths and history" near the end of the article. In particular, it says: "One manner of achieving this is by applying pressure to the perineum during orgasm." That is the technique you describe. There is some suggestion it may not always be harmless.

      Brenda is right. Shooting cum all over is half the fun!
      I do not grow old; if I stop growing, I am old.

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      • CHANDLERS WISH
        • Mar 2008
        • 22440

        It's being directed into the bladder.
        How on earth can that "not" be harmless. We blow our nose to get rid of rubbish, us ladies have these horrible things monthly to get rid of rubbish and yet, you guys have the opportunity to direct sperm back into your body somewhere, well I never.

        PUT A LITTLE 'LIKE' IN MY SOUL!

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        • Baboy
          Veteran Member
          • Aug 2012
          • 774

          Originally posted by CHANDLERS WISH
          well I never.


          Me neither!
          I do not grow old; if I stop growing, I am old.

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          • Motorguy
            Veteran Member
            • Mar 2014
            • 3921

            Oh no way with me, I want it out of me that's the surprise that Donna wants that she work for not to see or feel it. Then why would you even have sex then what a waste. That would be like eating then puking right after eating what a waste of good food and good come that my Donna loves to drink down or feel inside her. Just a thoughts on my part.
            When out driving always turn left. Then, should you become lost, you can find your way home by reversing the procedure and always turning right.

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            • Motorguy
              Veteran Member
              • Mar 2014
              • 3921

              Originally posted by CHANDLERS WISH
              How on earth can that "not" be harmless. We blow our nose to get rid of rubbish, us ladies have these horrible things monthly to get rid of rubbish and yet, you guys have the opportunity to direct sperm back into your body somewhere, well I never.

              I pass on this practice CW no way on my part lol.
              When out driving always turn left. Then, should you become lost, you can find your way home by reversing the procedure and always turning right.

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              • BigRed
                Member
                • Aug 2014
                • 20

                My tip was for masturbation, not sex. This thread was intended for anyone looking to alleviate clean up afterward.

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                • atskitty2
                  Assistant Admin
                  • Aug 2013
                  • 4467

                  Big Red, I have to say, that doesn't seem healthful. Additionally, it seems a bit on the lazy side just to avoid cleaning up. I don't know how big your wad is, but a small towel or tissue makes for pretty easy clean up, a baby wipe maybe? And it seems to me, totally worth the effort.
                  Sorry to be so negative, but as a woman, if I knew my man was doing that before we'd become intimate, I'd probably think he was a lazy lover too. (I'm not suggesting you ARE, just giving my thoughts) "Cutting corners" just isn't my style in sexual matters, and likely wouldn't find it to be ok in my partner either.
                  Not sure why, but I feel pretty strongly about that.

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                  • BigRed
                    Member
                    • Aug 2014
                    • 20

                    Been doing it for about 10 years and am 100% healthy.

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