[englishrose183]

My boyfriend and I have been in a very happy relationship for a couple of years now and have a great sex life. I've been able to reach orgasm through penetration and simultaneous clitoral stimulation with him (but not physically cum), and I am able to squirt when masturbating just my clitoris alone. However lately, my boyfriend has been wishing to see me cum, specifically on his penis during intercourse and I'm really not sure what the best way is to achieve this. Is it a case of more clitoral stimulation during intercourse is needed??

Basically my question is, is there a certain trick to cumming (not squirting) during intercourse?? I keep thinking this a really silly question or it has a blatantly obvious answer but I've seen girls in porn movies cum (not squirt) so I know it's possible and I would love to be able to do this with my boyfriend. I hope this makes sense to you all, my head is completely scrambled trying to work out the pain-in-the-**** female orgasm!

Please help!

[atskitty2]

I am a bit confused. Are you meaning gush instead of squirt? When you say cum do you mean gush or orgasm?

[Silvervine]

I'm not sure what the difference between the two are? Gushing and squirting are, at least in my understanding, the same thing. This is what we see in porn and what people generally define as 'cum'. When some women orgasm, they squirt/gush from the urethra. Personally, I can't do it during an orgasm (not all women can) but have recently started to squirt through clitoral stimulation. If you are able to achieve this during an orgasm (doesn't matter whether it's from clitoral or gspot stimulation) then you can 'cum' and shoot out where ever you like.

However, if you are talking about the thicker 'cream' that comes from the vagina (not urethra) during intercourse then you don't need to orgasm to get that. That's achieved simply by deeper penetration. It 'oozes' out as you are stimulating the gspot and going deeper. However, in my experience this doesn't generally happen during an orgasm. For me it's only happened once when I was using a thicker toy that I wasn't used to. A creamier substance just dripped out of the vagina during the orgasm. I've never seen this 'shoot out' like a squirt, even in porn. I don't even think that most women can produce enough of this cream to spill out on a partner.

I must also add, a lot of women in porn will drip semen. I'm not sure if this is a recent phenomenon in porn or if I'm just noticing. They will have the male cum inside the woman and you see her spill out a lot of cream which could possibly be confused with the cream that females produce. For example, a male will ejaculate inside her, she will get up maybe rub herself (perhaps purely for aesthetics) until it spills out on the partners penis. As a general tip, if you are seeing a runnier cream substance spill and drop out of a woman's vagina then it's probably semen. If it's thicker and you see small amounts drip, it's probably the cream the female as produced through internal stimulation.

Hope this has helped you in some way. As I'm not sure what you meant by cumming but not squirting, as most people consider this, by definition, to be the same thing. This is the best way I could answer. As a precaution, if you intend on having your partner blow inside you for this purpose, please make sure you are on some kind of birth control if you want to avoid unwanted pregnancy.

[bubba29]

I am a bit confused. Are you meaning gush instead of squirt? When you say cum do you mean gush or orgasm?

these are important questions to answer if you want advice.

[KRMJWG2442]

I understand what you are talking about. For my girlfriend and I the best position for her to cum on me during sex is reverse cowgirl. Beforehand though I manually stimulate her, usually to orgasm. Then once she gets on it is almost immediate that I see her cumming on me. Hope this helps.

[Motorguy]

Well squirting and gushing are the same thing. My wife Dona can only squirt without a penis inside her vagina only when her g spot and and her clitoris is played with at the same time. I really think it's humanly impossible for a women to squirt with a penis inside her vagina only if the man with draws then the liquid has some place to go then.

[FeminaS]

Try breastfeeding him. I think its the best solution.

I love to breastfeed my hubby. He loves it and I want to make him happy. He is totally a breastman. I am breastfeeding him for 4.5yrs.

I love to see how he sucks and lick my boobs and nipples. It makes our love life secure and enjoyable. I sleep braless, so that he can get easy access to my boobs. He sleeps on my breasts, sucks, kisses, give message, lick and bite those. sometimes i put some honey, chocolate or sauce on my nipples. He cleans that with his tongue and sucks my boobs hardly, He bites my nipples hardly when I ride on him (actually i always ride on him i love this most), I enjoy it and it makes our cum out. We get orgasm max time.

My hubby loves my bouncy breasts. Actually I have got 40D busty bouncy boobs. Those were only 32B when I met my dear hubby. He made them huge by his love. I don't want to stop breastfeeding my hubby, coj it makes our relation strong and deep. And moreover it makes me horny to him. He loves how gradually my breasts are increasing their size. He wants those to be more and more busty and me also want so, coj my dear hubby wants so. We love each other very much and breastfeeding supports us to love each other deeply. He does not get tired sucking my boobs and i also never been tired breastfeeding him. I call him MY LITTLE BABY. We have a child and we are a happy family.

I stopped breastfeeding him only for a few months while our baby born. But this badly effected our love life. He was not satisfied then. He doesn't want to loose his grip from my boobs.

I love to ride on him while sucking my boobs, and that happily end with a love making. It leaves with a mental and physical peace. He loves my boobs bouncing and hard nipples. So I usually stay braless at home. And his eyes keep watching my boobs bouncing. I enjoy much when his eyes become hungry seeing my bouncing boobs. My nipple changes their shape, become hard and longer when my greedy man looks at them.My boobs are his best food, energy booster and best entertainment. OH! of course its his confession.

Some women say that their bouncing boobs hurt during love making. I will suggest them to ask their hubby to bite hardly their nipples during love making. My hubby bites my two nipples together hard and tightly when i ride on him, so i dont need his hands support to boobs. My bouncing boobs get support of his teeth, those bounce rapidly but in front direction as my both the nipples are under my sweet hubby's teeth. He bend my waist with hands, message my back and bite my nipples with his sharp teeth. Its a great feelings, the pain is awesome. I ride on him madly. I push his head to my boobs, message his hair and neck and kiss his ear and forehead. We both love this, coj it picks us to the high of love and satisfaction. We both are highly satisfied max time.


Some women I heard that they are not passionate to love making. I will suggest them to try breastfeeding their husband. It will definitely work anywhere and anytime.

I am always very careful about my husband's need. So he loves me more and more. He says he is lucky to have me, but i say i am very very lucky to have him.

[effy2014]

While we all appreciate a titillating story Femina, you only need to post it in one thread. I'm glad you and your husband appreciate one another.

[raindancer]

...I've seen girls in porn movies cum (not squirt) so I know it's possible...

Porn movies aren't reality.

[effy2014]

Porn movies aren't reality.

Ah, but with enough editing, makeup and props, anything is truly possible.