[oldnotdead]

Since I am soon to be single (most likely) I would like to ask about female ejaculation. Can any woman achieve it, or just a lucky few? Where does the ejaculat (spelling?) fluid come from? Will an orgasm be stronger if one does get to ejaculate? Where should I be touching myself to achieve this? How will I know it's not just urine that leaked out?

>Also, I have orgasms but not the earth shattering ones I read about here. Am I not touching the right places? Can anyone reccomend a book? Preferrably with illustrations that teach what to do?

> One more....are there really two different areas in/around the vagina that can be stimulated to achieve orgasm? Thanks to anyone who can straighten me out on this!

[Little]

Not a lot is known about the female orgasm. It was only very recently proven to exist and not be urine.
Though it's pretty unlikely to be urine. I find it really difficult to urinate even AFTER arousal, much less during.
The thing about masturbation and orgasms is that everyone is different. Only you can find the right place. But most people agree that the ejaculation comes from a G-spot orgasm ... you can find that by feeling up the front of your vaginal wall, usually about three inches in. Special toys are made specifically to find it ... I have one, but it's too big for its intended use, so make sure you get one that's the right size.
There are plenty of areas in the vagina to touch ... there's the G-spot for starters. And lots of people don't know that the clitoris's nerve endings branch out along the labia majora. It looks like a wishbone; all you can see is the little nub ending at the top of your vagina, but there's a lot more to it.
Good luck

[Chantalemma]

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I had the hardest time to have an orgasm. but after many sessions and techniques I was able to find mine. I have to take a vibrating egg to my clitt and rub it. It makes me cum in seconds were my body shivers. I have never had an orgasm with intercourse. I fake them everytime not too let my bf think he is not good enough. I would never want to hurt his ego, but I enjoy intercourse just too see him cum.

[x.st.angel.x]

ok so i have such a difficulty reaching orgasm...i have only had 1 orgasm from my clit and about 3 during sex (g-spot) but the 1 i reached with my clit was one where i had a vibrator handy...took about 45 minutes to work but i was able to ejaculate and yes that orgasm was so much stronger than any of the others...it was absolutely amazing!! I reckon try using a vibrator and see if it works for you and the way to tell that its not urine is that you can actually feel it squirt out from your vagina so you know its not urine. Good luck

[WildChild]

Use a vibrator to learn what it feels like but don't overdo, heavy use can reduce your sensitivity and make it harder to cum without one. I feel like a book advocate sometimes (LOL) education is critical, get a copy of The Orgasm Loop, it's a great book, written by a female sex therapist who teaches women how to orgasm. It's a good book.

[Talitha]

Simply stimulation my clit has made me ejaculate before... Penetration actually isn't very pleasurable for me, at all. I also wonder where the fluid comes from...

[Talitha]

*Stimulating

[ItsASecret]

I also wonder where the fluid comes from...

There is much skepticism in the medical profession regarding female ejaculation but many professionals claim that the Skene's gland is responsible. The Skene's gland, also known as the periurethral glands/ducts, is a section of tissue that is located in the anterior vagina close to the urethral opening, sort of like a very tiny hole. When the vagina has been stimulated, via the G-spot, a secretion of fluid builds up and can be drained in the urethral opening area. The Skene's gland is said to be homologous to the male prostate gland due to the studies of the biochemical and secretory structures of the two. This means that women essentially have a female prostate, which is actually what some medial professionals would like it to be called. From what I have learned there is a great variety in the anatomy of the Skene's gland. As a result, some women may be lacking the Skene's gland and may simply not have female ejaculation but still have an orgasm with G-spot stimulation.

[goe]

As everyone has already said, there is not much known about the female orgasm. One thig that is apparent, though, is that it is much more variable than the male orgasm. I've read from a sex columnist (who cited books) that there is only one kind of female orgasm: a clitoral one, and that vaginal orgasms are the result of women who have a long clitoris.

I'm inclined to believe this, because I can only orgasm from direct clitoral stimulation with a vibrator, and I know I'm not alone.

As for ejaculation, all I know is that it is possible (I know several women who squirt).