[beccyb_2k]

Hi all.

My boyfriend underwent a circumcision not long before we met.
As a result of this he complains of losing sensitivity during sex which means he finds it hard to climax.

He tells me sex feels good and he feels turned on but it's a rarity that he can "finish" and it's becoming quite frustrating for both of us as (although he lasts for ages) his stamina goes before anything else does!

Does anyone have any suggestions on increasing his sensitivity or perhaps we can try some different things?

Has anyone experienced this sort of thing with a circumcised partner?

I'd appreciate the advice. We both will!

[raindancer]

I'm assuming you're an adult. If you aren't, please, don't read the rest of my post.

If stamina is a problem, you could try oral sex. He'd sit back and relax, while you'd do the work, or you'd do it to each other simultaneously. That'd be foreplay, so that when you'd move to intercourse, he'd be closer.

But remember: only do things you're comfortable with and willing to do.

Another thing would be changing positions. Some people, including men, can't orgasm in certain positions.

Did he talk to his doctor?

Good luck.

[Motorguy]

Hi all.

My boyfriend underwent a circumcision not long before we met.
As a result of this he complains of losing sensitivity during sex which means he finds it hard to climax.

He tells me sex feels good and he feels turned on but it's a rarity that he can "finish" and it's becoming quite frustrating for both of us as (although he lasts for ages) his stamina goes before anything else does!

Does anyone have any suggestions on increasing his sensitivity or perhaps we can try some different things?

Has anyone experienced this sort of thing with a circumcised partner?

I'd appreciate the advice. We both will!

Some times it will take longer then normal for that sensitively to come back to your boy friend. But I would be saying he should be talking to his doctor of why it's not sensitive for him right now maybe some scar tissue. Plus why did he get circumcised at his age now was it something you wanted him to do or something else came up about it all. Another thing are you two using condoms for sex if so maybe this is causing a problem to achieve orgasms with the condom on some guys can not orgasm with condom use with being circumcised you can loose so of that sensitivity with a condom.

[beccyb_2k]

Hi.
Thanks for the responses.

Yes, we are both in our 30's so there's no issue in censoring content, lol!

It was his choice and it was before I met him. I think you're right, the best course of action would be to see his GP. I was just wondering if maybe someone else could relate and perhaps offer some advice that I hadn't thought of. Obviously, if there was a way to make things "work" for him without/before seeing a GP we'd obviously be willing to try.

[Motorguy]

Your welcome Beccyb it's everyone pleasure to try and help the best we can thanks for becoming part of the family here at WH. So welcome and enjoy yourself here with everyone else.

[PhrendlyPhil]

Try bringing him to orgasm with a handjob (with lubricant) just to test things out. If that doesn't work, try a session of mutual masturbation (each of you do yourself). If that doesn't work, it's off to the urologist.