[sweetsaltyruchi]

Hello friends , i have married since last year and everything going fine between us, but many times my husband ask me for anal sex...as i always feel doubt full about this...so pls friends tell me is this really hygenic..??? and if yes than i heard its lot of painful..please who ever have such experience please feel free to share....i want to know about this stuff..i used to get addicted of sex and day by day my husband wish makes me feel bad...i tried once but i feel lot of pain and we stopped.. Please give me ur valuable replies regarding this ..so that i make myself comfortable. i saw porn movies with my husband and i m much open minded
thanks

[Claret]

If you've tried it and didn't like it, then just don't do it. However, if you still want to try this, do a search on this forum. There have been many discussions that you can read up on and then if you have additional questions you could ask.

[sweetsaltyruchi]

thanks claret for the valuable suggestion.. i want to say as my husband likes too much and during last 2-3 months avoiding him for this i feel he is loosing interest and day by day i got addiction of sex...when i see *** ****ING in porn it will excite me and i want to try...may be i feel reluctant just because of pain at all...

[effy2014]

Anal sex is perfectly hygienic if you follow simple rules. First, feces are not stored in the rectum or anal canal. Just make sure that you are clean (a simple wipe is fine). Showering before hand is also a plus.

Second, once he enters your anus, he cannot then enter your vagina. The bacteria in your anus is incompatible and you could get an infection. He will need to clean up before he does.

Third, use the right lubrication. There are lubes specifically for anal sex (Pjur makes one called Backdoor). He should put lube in your anus and have lube on his penis. The anus does not self lubricate as a vagina will during sex. If you need more, make sure he knows.

Fourth, being relaxed is also critical. If you tense up down there, it will hurt as he enters you. The entire anal play needs to be loving and the two of you need to communicate.

Fifth, porn is not reality. Though anal sex can be very enjoyable, thinking that it will be as depicted in a move is just wrong. These are paid actors and the scenes are highly edited.

Sixth, start slow. When he is giving you oral sex, have him lube and stick a finger in there. See if it is pleasurable. There are also anal beads that you can use while the two of you are having intercourse that will give you the same kind of feeling. I also suggest analingus. A great preparation for anal intercourse is to feel his tongue around and in your anus. If you enjoy the feeling, proceed.

Seventh, go slowly. Have him enter you bit by bit until you are used to him.

There are lots of books on anal play. You should order one and read it together.

[sweetsaltyruchi]

hey effy really thanks alot dear..u realy cleared out my all doubts in one reply..its realy being very helpful for me...thanks alott...now after reading these points i realy get excited to experience again in a much better way

[Funlife]

Anal sex is wonderful and better satisfaction than vagina sex. Of course anal in a human OUTlet or waste outlet. Cleanliness is a must. My Wife and me have quite frequent anal sex, she love it and she managed to climax 90% of anal sex session. Sometime she ask for more and climax few times in one session of anal sex. Every time she climax, she make sound much louder than vagina sex's climax.

Yes, first few time you might fail but doesn't mean that you'll fail all time. Get you partner to do it slowly with more lube. better you be the pilot rather than your partner. I believe you'll enjoy it one day.

[Motorguy]

Well Sweetsalty first of all lots of lube should be needed. The best thing to do is go to adult book store and get your self anal plugs they come in different sizes. Really small to pretty good size or even anal beads as well to play with. I stress have husband go really slow with a pinky finger begin sure his nails are trim short and clean. This process will take time it doesn't happen right away if you having lots of pain stop and try again later or another day till you can do anal without any pain. But like a say anal toys always work well to get a custom to feeling something in your anus. So good luck in your adventure with your husband in this position. When you do achieve this the orgasm can be very intense for you when it happens for you.

[Susan Sweetlove]

Sweetsalty I agree with everything effy, WH and motorguy say.

Sexual preferences and tastes vary so much between people so what works for one may not work for another. You've got to go with what feels good for you.

Having said that, I just have to share than in my experience anal sex is the most intense and deeply satisfying experience I've ever had. I first tried anal at 17 (I'm 30 now) and I can't imagine sex without it. Don't get me wrong, I love vaginal too, but anal is so much more intense for me. I love the feeling of being penetrated and stretched, and that feeling is so much more intense with anal. Anal feels like I'm being penetrated to my deepest and most vulnerable core. I love to play with my clitoris while receiving anal. That always results in the deepest, most intense orgasms for me, I usually orgasm and squirt multiple times when I do that.

I like to give myself an enema before anal sex so I know I'll be clean; I've never had a problem with that. Like everybody says, use lots of lube and go slow. I guess it's from my experience but I find my anus accepts penetration pretty easily now. It helps me to push down like I'm trying to poop when the penis first penetrates me. That seems to open the sphincter muscles up and makes the initial penetration easier. I find that my anus and rectum relax pretty quickly after that and there's no pain or discomfort then. If fact, I love to get pounded really deep and hard after that until I have an unbelievable orgasm.

Just sharing my experience. It may not work for you but it's worth a try in my experience.

[Helend]

Hi to all! I had that anal sex you know and now I face a problem.
I live in a small city in Ukraine not so far from Kiev where we know each other very well and we never discuss such things!
I'm being just in panic! My friend Boris who's two weeks back from Africa where he worked on some oil depoisit had some symptoms such as stomach pain, high fever and ache in his muscles and we first thought that was sort of flu. But then he started vomiting blood. We called the emergency and they took him into hospital on suspicion of some malfunction in his stomach....
Now I'm having endless hiccups, terrible headache and diarrhea... well and sore throat too! I suspect this is sort of some virus and maybe I got it.... well when we were in one bed.... when you know...... I had that anal sex for the first time..... May it be some infection passed in sex or what? I'm so scary and so nervous about it. Does anyone here have you any clue to it? I just hate it to go to the doctor and tell him these things you know.....

[Claret]

If your intimating that your friend brought back e-bola then you MUST contact the state run health care authorities immediately. If you EVEN think it, you must call them NOW.