[sweetsaltyruchi]

What do you think? Have you and your husband/wife had a threesome? Did it hurt your relationship, or was it worth it?

I will tell you in short
I m having this fantasy from my teenage and i m very much open with my husband...and my husband knows about my fantasy. He told me this that his wish will be to do THREESOME ... I really wonder what to reply as i just feel if its effect our bonding??

[Motorguy]

Well Sweetsalty I watch my wife many time have fun with her girl friends. The wife been bi since she was a teenage girl.This life style has not hurt are marriage at all but made a bond for each other stronger.

[sweetsaltyruchi]

Well Sweetsalty I watch my wife many time have fun with her girl friends. The wife been bi since she was a teenage girl.This life style has not hurt are marriage at all but made a bond for each other stronger.

Thanks Guy for replying I ant to know that if my husband want some other girl with me...or if he wants another guy known or stranger into this...than how i should be react??

[raindancer]

I think it is so strange asking other people, anonymous internet folk, or whoever, how you should react. You react in a natural way. You react from your own brain.

If we tell you, you should react in some particular way, are you going to stage your reaction to your man? Play a role? To please us?

Be genuine. Don't ask how you should feel about it. Ask yourself how you feel about it. Ask him, not us, how he feels about it.

If you can't ask him more direct questions about it, like if he wants other man, or other woman, do you think it is wise to go on with it? We can't tell you what he wants. Shouldn't the two of you be talking, clearly sharing your feelings, genuine ones, as opposed to fake/staged displays, about the whole thing and its practicalities?

We can share our experiences in the subject, but tell you how you should react? Should you react at all? If you don't feel anything about it, then you don't think anything about it.

Be yourself. And talk to him, if you have questions. He's the only other person who you're actually sure will be there, if you have a threesome together.

If you can't talk to him and ask all of your questions about it, then, probably you aren't ready yet to introduce other lovers to your bed. But only you can decide it. And if you're not sure of it, perhaps it'd be better to proceed with caution.

You say in another thread you like to see women having sex. Ask yourself if you'd like to see them having sex with your partner. If you find that thought truly exciting, that's a good sign. Ask yourself if you're comfortable with him making come true his fantasies of having sex with other men/women.

All of that is perfectly alright, IF it is really alright to you. What we think of it shouldn't matter. It's what you really feel, and what he really feels that matter.

[LilahX]

You should know by now whether your r/ship can stand up to total honesty. If you're not in a position where you can just say 'hey, I'd love to explore threesomes' then you could just bring it up when yr having a quiet, intimate time and start a discussion about fantasies, and whether fantasies can ever be realities. Gauge his reaction as to whether you can take the topic further.

Adding people to your sexual r/ship can be wonderful (as it is for us). It most definitely brings us closer and spices up our sex life, even when it's just the two of us. BUT it's most definitely not for everyone and absolutely needs to be treated carefully. A r/ship that isn't totally open and honest, trusting and non-judgemental will have no chance of surviving something like this.

Go slowly, sound him out without being specific. Talk. A lot. See where it might lead.

Good luck

[hot amy]

What do you think? Have you and your husband/wife had a threesome? Did it hurt your relationship, or was it worth it?

I will tell you in short
I m having this fantasy from my teenage and i m very much open with my husband...and my husband knows about my fantasy. He told me this that his wish will be to do THREESOME ... I really wonder what to reply as i just feel if its effect our bonding??

Have I not seen you ask this on the Womens Own forum

[Claret]

Same name, identical question but different avatar. Same person though.

[effy2014]

Did she get better responses?

[Claret]

No, I think they were about the same.

[hot amy]

Same name, identical question but different avatar. Same person though.

That is what I thought. Still not a problem it pays to get other responses.