[muffin70]

I have a secret confession…. Apart from my scarf fetish that my wife knows about – I also have a handkerchief fetish (that my wife sort of knows about)

It all started when I was about 10? – I used to rub my dad’s (clean) handkerchiefs over my penis as it felt good… I never ejaculated or orgasmed because I didn’t know what that was then. It wasn’t until I was about 13 and was rubbing a handkerchief over my erection one night when I felt a ‘tingling’ sensation and all this white stuff came out of my penis. It felt good but weird, as I didn’t really know what this white stuff was. I did it again the next morning to see if it would happen again and more white stuff came out. I then discovered it was semen and I was experiencing my first orgasms.

Anyway I soon found that if I wrapped the handkerchief around my penis like a tent, the handkerchief would collect my ejaculate – thus meaning no mess over the bed sheets or my stomach!

I also found that handkerchiefs with a bold pattern / border / stripes gave me a stronger orgasm than a plain white one would – and they turned me on more. My mum used to wonder why I had so many handkerchiefs in the wash sometimes. I think this was the start of my fetish

When I met my first G/F at 21 she thought it was a novel idea to ejaculate inside a handkerchief to avoid any mess, and she used to buy me new handkerchiefs occasionally to use sometimes during sex. To me I love the feeling of ejaculating into or over a clean men’s handkerchief - and it has to have a bold pattern / stripes.

I do have some 'regular' handkerchiefs that I use for blowing my nose...etc...

My main part of the fetish is collecting handkerchiefs – from the street, the park, the mall….wherever…. if I see a man’s handkerchief on the ground I will do my upmost to ‘rescue’ the handkerchief and over the last 20 years I have collected around 60 handkerchiefs. I try to do this as discretely as possible. I keep them in a box in my wardrobe and my wife doesn’t know what’s in the ‘box’

I will generally wash / clean the handkerchiefs before using and if they are still badly stained or something I will throw them away, but I just love the feeling of a strange / foreign handkerchief that’s not actually mine rubbing / caressing my genitals and penis.

I told my wife about this years ago when we started dating and she thought it was a bit weird and assumed it was something I had ‘grown out of’ and we’ve never discussed it since.
But the other day she was visiting a friend and I took the opportunity to get a dozen or so handkerchiefs out and began to play with them. I lay them out on the bed and I picked one up and masturbated with it, then changed handkerchiefs several times before deciding which handkerchief I wanted to cum over. So I had a navy blue stripped handkerchief around the base of my penis, unfolded a grey / burgundy stripped handkerchief on the bed and aimed my ejaculate straight for that handkerchief – boy did it feel good! This was the first time in several months I’ve played with my handkerchiefs.

The only downside is you have to wash the handkerchief(s) pretty much straight after you’ve ‘used’ them as they go hard and crusty and the stain will not come out easy (trust me I know!)

I am debating whether to confess all this to my wife, or to keep it as my little secret? she does not like it if I have masturbated between the times we make love

Anyway I just had to get this off my chest and I feel better for doing so.

Does anyone else have any sexual fetished that your parter may or may not know about?

[LilahX]

Is this fetish something you'd want to share with her? It seems a fairly solitary thing so far. If mutual masturbation is a part of your love life then perhaps you could let her know what you enjoy. Or does she like to watch you 'go solo'? Would using handkerchiefs with her (body) be a turn on in any way? Also, it depends on her tolerance of fetishes. YOu should know by now whether she's open minded and non-judgemental enough to deal with this. If this activity is something you 'need' then she does need to know about it. Sexual honesty really is the only way to be, but not all r/ships can cope with it.

[muffin70]

Is this fetish something you'd want to share with her? It seems a fairly solitary thing so far. If mutual masturbation is a part of your love life then perhaps you could let her know what you enjoy. Or does she like to watch you 'go solo'? Would using handkerchiefs with her (body) be a turn on in any way? Also, it depends on her tolerance of fetishes. YOu should know by now whether she's open minded and non-judgemental enough to deal with this. If this activity is something you 'need' then she does need to know about it. Sexual honesty really is the only way to be, but not all r/ships can cope with it.

thanks - I don't think she'd be open to trying my fetish though.... although I do keep a couple of 'regular' handkerchiefs on my bedside table that I use after sex to wipe my penis and clean her up so nothing spills on the bed, but when we are making love - a handkerchief is the furthest thing from my mind.
I did unfold one and put it on her stomach while we were making love and she asked me to take it off straight away

she does not really like my scarf fetish either, although occasionally she will wear my favourite scarf during sex or wear it while I masturbate - just to keep me happy