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Romy, I are often when she does it to me but it has become a big turnon to me knowing that she wants and loves seeing me ejaculate.I love it sometimes when she catches me with an erection and she says to me "Come over here and let me take care of that for you",Then when I do,she will have me to sit down right beside her and start mastrubating me and after awhile she will tell me to cum,she wants to see me cum.It's also a turnon to me knowing that there are women out there who wants to,loves and turned on by it,which I never knew before until my SO told me about about how she loves it and turned on by it.Comment
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I'm afraid I don't have what it takes.
I almost never give my man hand jobs, nor am I really interested to see him masturbate. I want him to masturbate when he's horny and I'm not there. I don't think I've ever given him a hand job, actually.
If he's horny and I'm there, I'd much rather give him oral, or have sex. All the men I've had preferred oral and sex over masturbation. There are so many more pleasant things for him (as for me) than masturbation... I see masturbation as something you'll only do if you don't have a loving partner eager to do something better. But that's just the way our couple works and I know there are people out there who's a lot into masturbation and handjobs. It's just not for us.
Seeing him ejaculating also isn't my thing. I'd rather look at his face, than watch his penis spurting sperm. I want to give him pleasure, but not because the sight of sperm does something for me.
I've noticed in the porn of the moment, women seem to worship cum. I've never witnessed it in real life. Perhaps I'm just old, and so are our partners.
If you enjoy it, go for it!Comment
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Oh god yes Bootsie, that's the best part of the whole love making watching your wife or girl friend orgasm. Plus Donna, loves watching as well it's makes the whole time worth it all for both of us. I would say it really turns us both on so much.When out driving always turn left. Then, should you become lost, you can find your way home by reversing the procedure and always turning right.Comment
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raindancer,I'm afraid I don't have what it takes.
I almost never give my man hand jobs, nor am I really interested to see him masturbate. I want him to masturbate when he's horny and I'm not there. I don't think I've ever given him a hand job, actually.
If he's horny and I'm there, I'd much rather give him oral, or have sex. All the men I've had preferred oral and sex over masturbation. There are so many more pleasant things for him (as for me) than masturbation... I see masturbation as something you'll only do if you don't have a loving partner eager to do something better. But that's just the way our couple works and I know there are people out there who's a lot into masturbation and handjobs. It's just not for us.
Seeing him ejaculating also isn't my thing. I'd rather look at his face, than watch his penis spurting sperm. I want to give him pleasure, but not because the sight of sperm does something for me.
I've noticed in the porn of the moment, women seem to worship cum. I've never witnessed it in real life. Perhaps I'm just old, and so are our partners.
If you enjoy it, go for it!
I wasn't ONLY just talking about him or you just pulling him out and mastrubating or him mastrubating in front of you.I was talking about the woman doing it and like watching as he comes.
When you and your guy having sex,You never ever wanted to stop just finish him off with your hand?Comment
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I agree Bootsie. And, it's not like it's something we do all the time, just every now and again to mix things up. One of my absolute favourite things is to watch my SO face when he orgasms and listening to him orgasm is equally amazing for me but hey, after all these years of being sexually active, I'm still fascinated by sperm and do enjoy watching it come out of my SO penis occasionally. I rarely watch porn - the fakness and acting do nothing for me. I'd rather be having sex than watching porn. The reason I love my SO sperm is because it's a part of him and I love and adore him more than I can put into words.Comment
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Romy,Thank you for putting it in a way that I meant it when I asked the question.The way you are fascinated with your SO's sperm is the same way I am fascinated with my SO's wettness and female cum.I love seeing how it run and oozes out of her vagina,watching how it contracts during each of her orgasm.I also love seeing and hearing her when she is having her orgasms.I don't watch porn anymore and haven't in over 2 years now.I am like you,the fakeness and acting does nothing for me anymore.I agree Bootsie. And, it's not like it's something we do all the time, just every now and again to mix things up. One of my absolute favourite things is to watch my SO face when he orgasms and listening to him orgasm is equally amazing for me but hey, after all these years of being sexually active, I'm still fascinated by sperm and do enjoy watching it come out of my SO penis occasionally. I rarely watch porn - the fakness and acting do nothing for me. I'd rather be having sex than watching porn. The reason I love my SO sperm is because it's a part of him and I love and adore him more than I can put into words.Comment
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You're welcome Bootsie. My SO is like you and loves all the things you wrote about in regards to your partnerRomy,Thank you for putting it in a way that I meant it when I asked the question.The way you are fascinated with your SO's sperm is the same way I am fascinated with my SO's wettness and female cum.I love seeing how it run and oozes out of her vagina,watching how it contracts during each of her orgasm.I also love seeing and hearing her when she is having her orgasms.I don't watch porn anymore and haven't in over 2 years now.I am like you,the fakeness and acting does nothing for me anymore.
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