[annymous]

I had anal sex for the first time and some poop came out during. I felt unbelievably embarresed he said its ok not to worry but I cant help it I feel disgusting. . We both realized that we enjoy it but when it happened I shut down.. I feel unpretty .. and now I think when we start to get intimate that its the first thing that he thinks of im afraid that the image in his head he will b turned off..

[manbreast]

take a small intima to clean out your rectum first and then use plenty of lubricant and then enjoy

[annymous]

We found out with this being our first time for both that it really turns us on when in the moment and enjoy it but after that I feel so uncomfortable and ashamed I guess ... and I dont want the hot sex to stop. I have never had this craving feeling for anyone but my SO and I cant keep the dirty thoughts out of my mind... any advice

[manbreast]

nothing wrong with anal sex it is great you both enjoy it no reason to feel guilty or ashamed just dont go back into your vagina after doing anal untill he washes good anal sex can be pleasurable for him also ,have you tried a vibrator on him to stimulate his prostate or use a strap on to penetrate him

[Motorguy]

We found out with this being our first time for both that it really turns us on when in the moment and enjoy it but after that I feel so uncomfortable and ashamed I guess ... and I dont want the hot sex to stop. I have never had this craving feeling for anyone but my SO and I cant keep the dirty thoughts out of my mind... any advice

Well just keep a supplied of fleets products to get a good cleaning before you going to engage into anal sex. The other get your self a old fashion enema bag to get your self really squeaky clean up before you going to do more anal in the future. This will keep from having that embarrassing moment for yourself next time.

[manbreast]

the fleet enema is great for cleansing the rectum without any side affects as part of your sex play let him fill your rectum with the fleet and then you know you are clean and ready with no need to stop in the heat of the moment you can also use it on him before taking him anally you both sound like a great loving couple keep it going ,anal sex can be a wonderful and pleasurable way to keep you both with a satisfying sex life

[LilahX]

When he says it doesn't matter - believe him. My ex totally loved anal and not every time was I able to 'get prepared' properly and it got a bit messy. Like you, I felt awkward but he thought nothing of it. One time he got some warm washcloths and cleaned me up. I did feel embarassed but I realised that for him it was no big deal and I loved that he cared enough to do that for me rather to leave me to scurry off to the bathroom to 'clean up'. Sounds like your guy is like this and is just happy to have a partner who's into it as well.

If you really wanted to make sure things don't get messy you can go to the extreme of having an enema a few hours earlier, or just making sure yr bowels are empty - but that's not always possible and it can ruin the spontaneity sometimes - so just go with it and try not to worry. Enjoy the fact that you sound like you have a great guy.