Actually I know a few people stemming from countries where masturbation is considerate as an absolute taboo. My observation is that they are much more obsessed about sex, having it constantly on their mind, as they have no release, so to speak...
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I will admit to 'relieving' myself between sexual activity with my wife... we normally make love once a week or sometimes every 2 weeks.... it's very rare that we will have sexual activity more than once a week and if it is her time of the month then she 'shuts up shop' down there for about a week.....
Sometimes if she is out with a friend or something, then I'll take the opportunity to masturbate myself... I will normally masturbate into or over an unfolded handkerchief to relieve myself.
If I don't do this then when we actually do have sex I will orgasm very quickly in minute or less... whereas I can last about 2-3 minutes....Comment
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Being very busy with work can distract you and masturbation may get rid of some of the sexual tension, but neither will entirely get rid of missing someone that you are intimate with and away from. Daydreaming about being with them as you look at photos of them or of the both of you may help a bit.I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
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Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?
From a speech by Patrick Henry on March 23, 1775 at St. John's Church, Richmond, VirginiaComment
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My SO doesn't want sex more than 1-2 times a month, and sometimes it's a full month.
I've found that prolonged masturbation will curb my appetite for a few days to a week. Meaning I'll use tantric and Lingam massage techniques to stay aroused for at least 30-40 minutes before a final climax. The quickie's do nothing to curb desire for me, they only fuel them, while a prolonged session can get pretty intense, so it then takes a few days before urges start creeping back in. Problem is finding the private time for one while my SO is around.Comment
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