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  • effy2014
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    • Apr 2014
    • 1777

    Originally posted by CKGAG57
    I'm not proud of snooping, guess that's why I haven't spoken to my SO about this, i'm embarrassed, what is bothering me is the fact of who the photos are of, he obviously likes this female colleague of his, someone he spends probably more time with than me.. What also bothers me is that he takes photos of me sometimes, we both enjoy it as part of foreplay, so why does he have the need for the fake pictures? I have tried to bring up the subject but he brushes it off.
    No one should be proud of snooping, but when you find something this hurtful, you and your husband need to have a conversation he cannot brush off. You need to tell him what you found, why it is hurtful to you and the reasons behind it. Come clean. Then evaluate his answers. I Can't think of a good one off hand, other than the obvious ones.
    "The only consistent feature of all of your dissatisfying relationships is you." Despair.com "Dysfunction"

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