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  • effy2014
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    • Apr 2014
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    You are only 22 years old. While I applaud you for not having sex with every woman you meet and for choosing to get to know a woman, I would not completely rely on your perceived relationship skills. What you are looking for is not easily discernible -- a "good girl" who will permit you to be an alpha male in real life but who secretly years to be a femdom. A woman who will enjoy humiliating her man and then have the ultimate respect for you outside the bedroom. A tall order indeed.

    There are no rules or conventions on when you ask about a woman's sexual proclivity or when you can you reveal your darkest secrets. I dated a woman who was incredibly open sexually but would never do anything that would make her "lose respect" for me. My current SO enjoys pegging and allows me to get my "fill" of so many other activities that I need and enjoy . . . she can get "aggressive" at times but getting her to take control even in role play has proven difficult. Life is a series of trade offs . . . my SO satisfies me in every respect. Even if you can't get all that you might like sexually, find a wonderful woman who can get you part of the way there and all of the way in other critical areas of life.
    "The only consistent feature of all of your dissatisfying relationships is you." Despair.com "Dysfunction"

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