[swee2886]

Hi,
l was wondering is it normal for guy to like anal sex if their not gay.
My boyfriend dose and it really turns him on?

[miss_maid]

no....you can like thing that they do without being gay!!

[Little]

Perfectly normal, straight behaviour.

[tiffanybabe]

normal normal, it's a prostate thing for guys...

[zig]

:-) Don’t worry. It’s normal (I assume of course it’s not the only way he prefers to have sex ).

[C]

normal normal, it's a prostate thing for guys...

It is normal and I will go you one further on this. A man needs stimulation of this gland as he ages. If he does not get this through sexual contact with a woman, he, too should masturbate to keep himself open. I know a bit about this as years ago my husband had to have some tests done and he was more than normal.... A woman has to be careful stimulating the man with her fingernails...Be very careful. A doctor not meaning to, punctured the inner anus of my husband. Infection set in and he just about had to wear a bag the rest of his life. Instead he is missing quite a bit of the area around the opening of the anus. It was a rough surgery. This is a very tender area so use caution....Believe me I know. I watched him suffer for weeks as no stitching could be done and an open wound had to heal by itself....

I hear they love strap on's but that is about all I know about that.....

[swee2886]

Thankyou for your help

Now l can feel a bit more open about it with him.
And too just be careful when it happens.
p.s hope your husband recovers well.

[metboogie]

As a man, I have my owv POV on the prostate. I think it causes amazing orgasms, but it doesn't require full on anal...it should only require a finger (or 2). To me, a man who wants full on anal (as the receiver) is leaning toward the other side - does it make him gay? No. But it could make him bisexual or bicurious. But that's just me...

[rcoreyus]

There are lots of different ideas about straight / gay / bi.

As far as I'm concerned, if you only want to be intimiate with people of the opposite sex, you are straight.

If you only want to be intimate with people of the same sex you are gay.

If you want to be intimate with people of both sexes (even if you don't have the opportunitey to do so, or are in a monogamous relationship) you are bi.

But - I don't see how the label matters anyway. Just as someone can be in a monogamous relationship and be interested in someone else of the opposite gender (but not act on this interest), they can be interested in someome of the same gender and not act on it. No reason at all that someone who is bi can't be in a happy monogamous relationship.

[LadyLane]

Wow, this is funny, because I took her comment to read that he likes to do it to her, and she was wondering if he was gay for that reason.

I wasn't thinking about him being the "bottom" - even though we've discussed this alot around here.

lol