[lorisally]

I am a wife who has a girlfriend who always brings up my husband's penis. Yes, my girlfriend is married but her husband cannot get an erection and is not able to have sex with her anymore. I have known her for over 20 years. Everyone time we go out to the restaurant or meet, she asks how big my husband's penis is and how thick it is. My girlfriend at one time wanted a picture of his penis. What are your opinions?

[Claret]

If this is all both you and she talk about, I'd suggest you both get a life outside of each other and not talk anymore.

[effy2014]

Why does your friend think that the topic of your husband's penis is an appropriate subject for conversation? How do you normally respond?

Unless you are thinking of loaning out your husband for stud service or selling her pics, I would either tell your friend that the topic of your husband's penis is out of bounds or, take Claret's advice and just not be friends. I am sure that she can find plenty of pictures of erect penises on the internet.

[kdc]

. . . Everyone time we go out to the restaurant or meet, she asks how big my husband's penis is and how thick it is. My girlfriend at one time wanted a picture of his penis. What are your opinions?

This is not a good friend. I say dump her.

[muffin70]

download a picture of the internet of John Holmes penis - then take that to her and say your husbands penis is like that but bigger....

[jilljames8184]

Sounds like she really needs a man and is too shy to try to find one herself. Encourage her to visit a sex shop and purchase something to help her until her husbands condition improves. From a woman's standpoint, we do need to "release" (for lack of a better term) from time to time. Just keeps everything working smoother.

[Lexhill]

I would say you really need to think about it yourself. Can it be that your friend want's to join you and your husband? Since she can't get anything at home. Maybe she feels safer having sex with people she already know.

Anyway as effy2014 said you need to sit down with her and tell her where your boundaries are. If she can't except that, I would state that she is not that good of a friend and cutting down on contact might be a solution. If she only wants to look at pictures of a penis there is a different ways to do that, porn or penis books are a couple. I would believe she already knows that's an option. That's why I think she kinda tries to get some 3way action or something.

[Motorguy]

I am a wife who has a girlfriend who always brings up my husband's penis. Yes, my girlfriend is married but her husband cannot get an erection and is not able to have sex with her anymore. I have known her for over 20 years. Everyone time we go out to the restaurant or meet, she asks how big my husband's penis is and how thick it is. My girlfriend at one time wanted a picture of his penis. What are your opinions?

My opinion Lorisally you need to talk with your girl friend. Just tell her you are not comfortable talking about your husband penis with her. Now if she can't stop this nonsense like a high school girl chat then you need to stop talking with her. Just tell her take your husband to the doctor and get Viagra or penile implant or by some sexually toys for your self. I hate to see a friendship of 20 years end over something pretty stupid. But there needs to be guide lines between friends. Well good luck on what you decide to do with this topic with your GF.

[Obelisk]

Can't this guy service his woman in another way? I understand he may not be able to get an erection, but is his tongue failing?