[Leow]

Suspecting husband having affairs because I don't have big boots.. I feel very miserable and hurt. I wanted to do something to my boots, whenever we do sex I can sense that he is not happy with it, because he cannot press and suck.

Any advise.

[effy2014]

What evidence makes you think that your husband is having an affair other than your chest?

I presume that he had seen you naked and had sex with you prior to the wedding and married you "anyway". Why would he suddenly change his mind and want another woman?

You, as a person, are more than a chest measurement. I am sure that he loves you for a number of reasons. Many men do not care about breast size as well. Be more confident in yourself.

[beethovengenius]

I'm a man and breast size is not very important to me. As long as the woman I am with is healthy with a good sex drive and a good attitude that's all that matters. LOL, you wrote "boots" twice, I think you meant boobs?

[Milla-gross]

First of all, i'm sure that your husband is not cheating on you because of your boobs. And if he is, then the change you need in life is not a biob job but to get rid of him.

[Lexhill]

As another man i can tell you the same. Boob size is not that important. And if he has already married you I would guess it's not your husbands either. Beethovengenius makes a good point about a good sex drive and good attitude. This goes a long way for keeping a guy happy(Most guys).

I to wonder if there are other reasons you believe he is cheating?

But to be honest as you say you can sens him not being completely happy with your boob size. Humans can often want what they don't have. I Believe that's where the saying "the grass is not always greener on the other side". But I would not care to much about it since he already married you. You can on the other side ask him straight out if your chest bothers him.

[Catvion]

It is likely that you are more critical about your own body than he is. I don't think that many people would cheat if this were the only issue.

[manbreast]

i would rather make love to a small breasted woman who is a good lover both in giving and receiving pleasure than a large breasted woman who thinks she is gods gift to men there are many ways to make small breast sexy

[muffin70]

it's not all about the breasts...... it's about the personality.... if he really loves you then it will not matter what size your breasts are.
He married you right? so obviously he wasn't worried about your breast size when he met / married you, so what makes you he now wants someone with bigger breasts??

[Obelisk]

I'll give you my take from a practical sense.

Personally I get annoyed when people patronize me (and sorry, a lot of you gals and dudes are patronizing ).

I have no idea if your man is cheating on you or not. If he is, is it because of your breast size? Depending on the guy it's possible.

For me personally, I can honesty say that I am not a breast man. A vs D does not register a lot to me. But if I am honest with myself, I have to admit that larger breasts are more impressive when two women of these sizes happen to be next to each other.

But alone with a girl that has small breasts? hardly an issue. The best thing to me is if a girl is really into me and enjoying being with me. That's like 70% of the factor for me. And I can say that honestly, as I have been with a girl that was model looking, and with a girl that was chubby, maybe 40lbs overweight and smaller breasts, and I had a much more fulfilling relationship with her because she was hungry for me, while the first girl had more of an "you're lucky to be with me because I'm hot"

So why not ask your guy? At least that way you know for sure.

And breast implants? Don't bother. I don't think any guy wants that artificial pumped up look that those things give.