[C]

The easiest and most erotic thing to do is to have yourself in the Doggy Position. Have him be in back of you and lick you out and finger you. Tell you how hot looking you are and that your p*ssy is swelling and inviting him in. Have him keep fingering and licking and going for your G-spot until you orgasm. He must keep you hot with his talking and passion...Have a lot of lube on him if you are going to do this plus yourself. Then when you orgasm from his fingering and licking, your anal area will be more open and receptive.... More sexually hungry than you would ever be at any other time....Ah, the joys of sex.....

[sweet30s]

the toys used for anal sex best work if used for at least an hour beforehand, what I am saying is leave it IN for about an hour, this will stretch you a bit and then with the lube and excitment it should not hurt. Any real pain is a red flag, be careful. Me? I plan the anal sex in advance, I buy a douche, to cleanse well (nothing worse than an accident) then I use the anal toy for about an hour then start with hubby. Yeah I know, what about spontaneous sex, well I leave that for standard areas, as for anal, it takes planning.

[mcraqur]

Chick here loves anal

I associate anal sex with great love - it's the ultimate expression of love in my opinion. Perhaps because the first time I tried it, it was with my first real love and to this day, it is the most memorial sexual experience of my life (him penetrating me). As a result of my initial experience, I'll only consider anal in a serious relationship and now, some 20 years later, I've found my man. Anyhow, I really wanted to penetrate a man (which I didn't do the first time) after reading the book The Hite Report on Male Sexuality. There, heterosexual men tell their personally stories about what it feels like to them to be penetrated anally. Very informative and I just thought wow, I would love to give such intense pleasure to a man I love (that, coupled with the memory of what it was like for me to be penetrated). My current man had never tried it and when I asked him if I could put my finger in, he said yes and the best part, he loved it. The more he loved it the more I love it. Now, we do anal regularly and he is just starting to use toys on me anally. He's still a little nervous about hurting me.

A few suggestions I haven't seen: Educate yourself on what it feels like to a man when you penetrate him - for those who enjoy. If he wants to penetrate you, he should be willing to be penetrated - at least for me that's a hugh turn on. When you start to experience just how intense it is for him, it's very fullfilling and you want that for yourself too. Also, on entry - when he first puts the toy or **** in, push out as though you are going to poop. Once he has an inch or so in, have him just be still for a few seconds or more. I saw that advise on a board a few years ago and it works excellent for me. One last thing, do practice on yourself when you're alone - once you learn how to do the entry (push out like to poop, insert about 1" and hold), you'll be a lot more comfortable with your mate. One last thing, if you and your mate love each other, anal sex can be the best sex of both of your lives. Who doesn't want to give and receive that? Just my opinions.