[SorridLives]

Hmmmm.. interesting. Never found that to be hot. Kind of gross if you want me ot be honest. I am a very adventerous and sexual person but ths sound way too much like one of those weird fetishes. Just my opinon though... plus I sure as heck don;t want to be lactating for years! Talk about droopage!

I don't think it's weird. I think it's very sexy. A person doesn't have "droppage", as you put it, because they are lactating.

[tommycat]

My 2 cents

I'm a 38 y/o man who has become involved with a great lady. She loves to have her breasts suckled, and has multiple orgasms while I do this. I enjoy this aspect of our relationship because it brings her pleasure, and I love her and want her to be happy. It has brought us closer and more in tune with each other. We are not trying to act like mom and baby, and she is not lactating. If two consenting adults engage in an ANR and enjoy it though, good for them. Just don't do it in public please.LOL I actually think our closeness has made us more considerate and appreciative of each other, and happier in general. It is not for everyone. For some people, a good firm hug or other things help a couples intimacy. We happen to like this. To each his own.

[crzyredhead21]

I meant droopage after letting the milk dry up. And anyways, that's not the point. I was putting in my two cents worth of an opinion there.

[Guest]

I've heard of this subject before but I guess it kind of went over my head, maybe because I was not interested.
My wife has had 6 children, 1 a still born beautiful girl, another was lost early in the pregnancy. The other 4 she breast fed, altho the last my beautiful 20yr. old Baby Girl was not getting the nourishment she needed so we went to the bottle on her. The 3 boys are big healthy Men and there were no problems. I believe it created a greater bond between them and their Mother.

Personally I see nothing wrong with ANR, I think it's great - My wife has Large wonderful breast and I have always enjoyed them thru-out the yrs. So I'm sure it's a wonderful experience altho I don't feel that would happen now.

[roman_charity]

I can definitely say that I could never get in to that.

the thing is...most men/women do this without thinking...for most men they associate it with sex and are considering this as foreplay. At which point it will turn towards sex...well ANR doesn't HAVE to have milk to be ANR...it is great when it does..but it isn't necessary...and I would think that most women wouldn't mind having their breasts sucked on..again it can be DRY ANR sessions if either feel uncomfortable...it is simply quality time/cuddling time/emotional bonding that is important..NOT whether she is lactating or not.

reasons to start ANR
1) improves quality time and bonding together
2) if she is engorged, this will help relieve that pain she is dealing with and is a bit more intimate and personalized than a pump, she won't feel like a cow getting milked by a machine.
3) supply and demand...the infant will NEVER go without...because with the extra help comes extra milk.
4) the nutrients, contrary to popular belief, are NOT lost on the adult either!
5) cancer patients drink breastmilk which fights cancer cells.

Thank you. I never want to go through engourgement again. Makes me think "'why go to the grocery store' when you can get the milk for free".

quite the contrary...if you became engorged...who better to help than your hubby? It is more personalized and intimate with him than with some machine making you feel you belong in a dairy..

and that IS true...why buy milk that comes from another species that needs to be pasteurized when you can get the real deal for free...tons of health nutrients..it is like drinking Yakult...the benefits far outweigh the drawbacks...

it is simply a social stigma that plenty of people draw themselves into due to a lack of information and perception.

[roman_charity]

Not for me. I do like it when my guy sucks on my breasts but the thought of doing it when lactating makes me think of breast feeding when my kids were babies. Very bonding but in no way sexual.

I can imagine it would be a comforting bonding experience but not for me and not a sexual thing. Mybe I'm a prude, WOW never saw myself in that light before. Or maybe just not my thing?

tt

like I said before...take the "sexual mentality" out of it...don't use it to get turned on...if that happens that is one thing..but this is about sensuality, not sexuality..it is about bonding emotionally and having quality time when you aren't down for sex..but would still like some emotional/physical activity with your man/woman...

if people change the context in which they see this activity, daresay a paradigm shift as it were, then they may find themselves more open to the idea.

[Livelaughlove]

I would be willing to try it... Just need an applicant.

[roman_charity]

I just don't get the people saying that it's not the same as dressing up as a baby or wearing diapers. To me, it's the same as doing that but to a HIGHER degree. (Which is more intimate, putting your spouse in a diaper or letting your spouse suckle your breast milk?)

That is a bodily fluid meant to nurse a baby- I find it a little creepy a grown man would find it sexually arousing to act as their partner's baby, and that a woman would find it arousing to act as her partner's mother, which is EXACTLY what it is. I mean, to each their own, EVERYONE has their kinks, but something about this does not sit right with me.

but that is just it...I don't see it as ANYTHING sexual...it isn't a TURN ON..sexually and I think that if someone makes it a sexual fetish, then that is what it becomes TO THEM..I think it is a personal thing..not a general thing..

to me...if I were to do this..I prefer to NOT have sex afterwards..because I want to confirm that I am NOT conditioning my body or mind that this is something sexual or to expect sex afterwards. It is a moment of sensual quality time with your partner...it can be part of cuddling and the benefits of the milk itself are incredible....I mean this stuff fights CANCER...obviously if there are patients drinking this for that reason...there are benefits period.

I think if it ever became sexual, I would stop...because then I took the practice too far and it became something it was never meant to be.

I definitely am not feeling motherly in the sense of having a baby or child connected with my fantasies about breastfeeding or a man suckling. It is just a turn on for a man to do it...and not in diapers.

yeah..I think the whole diaper thing is a bit weird...I mean...take care of business...but wear Depends for ANR? that is a bit further than I am willing to go with this..

again..it isn't a fetish until YOU make it one...THAT is an individual thing..not to be generalized for all of us who enjoy it for what it OUGHT to be...

no sorry sounds pretty gross...makes me think of infants breastfeeding off of their mothers...to me that is not sexy at all...but i guess to each his or her own...

again...will repeat...this was NEVER meant to be "sexy" or to turn someone on...if that occurs where people are doing it as a fetish, or dressing up in diapers..again..that is their deal...but that is NOT where this is going...it is simply quality time with your sig other and quite honestly...if he is sucking on your breast prior to having sex..(foreplay) ..that is STILL ANR, it is known as DRY ANR...but it is ANR all the same...most women appreciate and even enjoy having their breasts sucked...and most men enjoy it as well..so where is the downside? really?

[anonymouswhitefemale]

PS breastmilk spreads HIV so know tapping off strangers

Are you certain? I'm told you could drink a pint of HIV infected sperm and not get aids, how is breast milk so different? It's something about stomach acid killing the disease, though I guess if you have a bad cut in your mouth.....

And yeah, I'd be totally up for it. And as far as I'm concerned, it's completey different to wearing a nappy etc., and I think it's ignorant and narrow minded to jump to that conclusion.

[sTyLeRock]

hmmm

I'm Male,

I can see how this could be fun and i suppose i'd try it if she enjoyed it and it didnt hurt her,

but i don't have a fantasy or fetish that involves me milking my girl.

-Daniel