[stillkickin]

Sorry I saw the 22 after your name and assumed it was your age. I'm afraid I don't know what FTR means.

Then if you're older, have you asked your doctor and have you tried masturbating?

[nikki22]

No apology needed

FTR = For the record

I have not discussed it with my doctor simply because I know some women are incapable of orgasming at all, and it would be a totally normal thing if I couldn't.

Masturbating, yes I have. That's where I first experienced this as a matter of fact.

I understand that there can be different "forms" of orgasming, my simple question is whether or not I am having one.

Like I said in my 1st post, before my current BF, it wasn't something that was on my mind. I never had a man that was interested in pleasing me as mush as I am with him. -- That's why my question is something new, despite the fact that sex is not a new thing for me

[stillkickin]

I believe you are. It just isn't as spectacular as you'd like maybe.

[BettyBoop]

Orgasm.

If your wet all over and your vagina starts to spasmodically contract I would say you probably have had that so called alusive orgasm that we have been reading about.

Believe me you will know.