[miss_srs101]

Ok ladies brace yourself i have a situation ive met this really wonderful guy the man ive been waiting for but there is a problem. We do have distance between us so i havent slept with him yet however i have had the oppurtunity to see what im working with and this man is large ladies. When we first met he explained that it was hard for him to keep a woman because they cant handle him hes about 11 and a half inches and as thick as a coke can yes i said it a coke can thats alot to take in. how big is too big and if you were in my situation would you walk away bigger isnt always better voice your opinions i could use them

[metboogie]

Carmen will tell you that's small in comparison to her 23" man...

Anyhow, the reality is that while you can stretch over time, you may not want to get your vagina big enough to handle a penis that size if you aren't going to marry him...because you may seem cavernous to your next man!

Plus, since this is a long distance issue you would have to do that manually (using dildo's and stuff)...also, pleasuring each other with intercourse is going to be REALLY hard for a long time...

Look, if you love him, go for it. If not, consider the pros and cons and make a decision.

[Fallen1]

Ok ladies brace yourself i have a situation ive met this really wonderful guy the man ive been waiting for but there is a problem. We do have distance between us so i havent slept with him yet however i have had the oppurtunity to see what im working with and this man is large ladies. When we first met he explained that it was hard for him to keep a woman because they cant handle him hes about 11 and a half inches and as thick as a coke can yes i said it a coke can thats alot to take in. how big is too big and if you were in my situation would you walk away bigger isnt always better voice your opinions i could use them

When you first met him he was talking about his package and not being to big to keep a woman? Don't know the situation behind the conversation but that sound kind of vain if you ask me. You've said you had the opportunity to see, did he actually show it to you to confirm his bragging?

Anyway, I think it's all up to you to decide whether or not you want to have a physical relationship. You won't know until you try it.

[miss_srs101]

I see what both of you are sayin and i got the whole stretching out issue because if it dosent work out and i decide to be with someone else the whole issue of how its gonna feel to the next man did cross my mind and it wasnt about a bragging issue he just wanted to lay it out on the table since we were on the suject anyway and he didnt actually just pull it out and show me it was just obvious and did u say 23 inches girl how do u it but like you said wont know till i try

[Mourningman]

I think Carmens guys name is MR ED!

[shweedart]

sex and the city

im pretty sure the same thing happened to Samantha on sex and the city!
Not every woman gets this oppertunity lets face it, how many men are that well equipt? If i were you i'd (excuse the term) give it a go. Im sure we'd all be happy if babies were coke can size whilst giving birth! and can't the vagina open to the size of a fist? or something like that



hope it goes well for you

[tortoiseblair]

listen love let me tell you about a time when i had a big one, when i was 19 i met a guy, he wasnt my first guy, and beleive me he had a very big package, we flirted and teased for weeks before we finally gave in and admitted we were in love with each other,the time came for sex, i was so wanting it, the more fore play we did the bigger it got, it was hugh, then he shoved it into me, pumped me a few times, and i told him to get off, we tried in another position, same again a couple of pumps, and i told him to stop, the pain was so sore, we then tried it doggy style, the pain was just getting worst, really really painful, so he stopped again, i stood up straight and there was blood running down my legs, i ran to the bathroom to wash it of and put a towel on, you could see the blood on the carpet from where i was running from the bedroom to the bathroom, i bled for a good hour before i stopped, and believe me it was serious blood, we never did have sex, his penis must have been ripping inside me, our relationship never did last, due to the fact that we couldnt have sex, i really hope you do the write thing, i cant tell you what to do, but please if you are going to try to have sex, i would suggest to you that it would be painful,

[Celeste]

[quote=metboogie;31416]Carmen will tell you that's small in comparison to her 23" man...




oh.....oh my god. I just looked that thread up. that was sooooo funny. SO FUNNY!

Anyway. I agree with something said above, not to get your body used to doing one that big unless you intend to really keep him.

[miss_srs101]

you know what i dont think its even the length that bothers me its how big around he is that has me like wow of course we have seen plenty of men with long*****but what about the roundness of it all thats wat i cant digest and as far as oral goes my mouth is only big enough to fit the head lol is this crazy or what who says bigger is always better not only that he takes forever to cum we had phone sex one night and we are 45 mins in it before he could cum is that the norm for men with a large penis..

[metboogie]

For men with a normal sized penis, the blood flow when stimulated is usually more than enough to get an erection quickly - and keep it throughout the sex act.

For unusually large men (whether it's length or width) it takes a LOT more blood flowing into the penis to get that erection (and to sustain it). With a guy as wide as a coke can, think about how much liquid goes in that can...well, it's not natural for the body to divert that much blood to the penis - no matter how stimulated the person is.

Honestly - he needs to start dating porn stars and strippers...because the average woman will just not be able to take him.