[Hystorm]

OK, so now to one of the questions that brought me to this forum.

The little wife said something the other day that really floored me.
She had been out with one of her girlfriends to a function and when they returned home, they at in our driveway for a few hours talking. Turns out, they were girl talking (what else would they be doing..)
The wife was giving her friend advice about her rather aloof husband and was getting praise about what a wonderful husband she has (me, that is J).
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When she came in to the room, soon the conversation drifted to sex.
I don’t remember the context of the statement but she floored me when she said:
“I think I could make my self orgasm by just thinking about it, in my head.”!!!???
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Meaning, she could go without any touch of any kind. At least she claims she thinks she could. I of course did exactly what any normal guy would do and said: “show me.”
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She has never masturbated in her life, due to religious beliefs. So when I said, show me, she replied no, it would be too much like masturbation.
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My question for the ladies should be obvious…is that even possible?
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I told her I would buy her a week-end get away if she would show me promising not to fake it. She said she would get back to me.
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So…is that even possible or is it something that is a women’s club secret?
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Thanks in advance.

[rexydon]

Its true i was talking with an ex of mine about stuff we did. She was remembering it in her miind so visually that she orgasemed with out me tuching her or her tuching herself.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

[quote=Hystorm;32263]OK, so now to one of the questions that brought me to this forum.


Wish that was shorter, now i have to go back up and down to re-read...

I'm going to the end first.

"Horny" That's your projection. She makes a "sexy" comment and you as a male go into "horny mode" which is normal. So, you suggest a weekend away, in the promise that she gives this a go, doesn't fake it and shows you. Horny.

So. I see, they had a great conversation and she is learning visualisation and in that conversation it occured to her that she could possibly have an orgasm just thinking about you.

She shared that with you and it was sexy. You need to keep it sexy. This is her fantasy, her thoughts not yours. Your actually not in this one for a change.....

I would be saying. I find that incredibly sexy and i'm honored to think that you feel it possible to just think about me and as a result have an orgasm.

Tell me about it if you do. It would make me proud.

Now, in my opinion this does two things and actually i can talk from experience with this one, only two days ago.

It makes you want to do it. It makes you visualise it constantly. It makes you curious. And, all going well it makes it happen. It also takes away the thought of it being masterbation as it is a thought that creates a result and it is sexy where in her mind masterbation is perhaps dirty as women were bought up to believe and as she is Christian i think that is their belief.

Create the disalussion.

The fact that you are "honored" haven't turned it into sex rather, sexy is incredibly sexy.

Visualisation is an amazing thing. It can take you on journey's that you are not even aware exist or that you would possibly consider.

If she believes that she may be able to visualise this " in her head" she can't do it from not thinking about something and therefore that something is obvious. You.

So as i said, retract that statement and tell her you've been thinking.

It's a beautiful thing not a horny dirty thing.

Bold of her and couragous to even share that thought with you, very sexy thing to do.

Let her be sexy and stay out of it encourage her, your both married never know what happens from there.

[Hystorm]

Amen...

I'll report back..

Thanks again.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Amen...

I'll report back..

Thanks again.

I should be here still in a few months,hopefully, Rome wasn't built in a day.

Best of luck.

[Inmydreams]

Yes, this is the ONLY way orgasm has ever happened to me. Don't know why, but despite everything I do, I never have had an orgasm from sex or physical masturbation. But I do ejaculate fluid, alot. Just none of the spasming. Maybe in the dreaming state, it is easier to relax and feel what you want to feel. Obviously, as this as happened to me, the mental component to sex is a HUGE part of it. Men should try this too, lol! Like to see THAT happen! But I can not do this fantasizing while awake, only in actual dreams.

[LQT]

yes this is possible, its not hard really, just gotta use your immagination!!

[cassie66]

ive got close

[Tanisha]

ive got close

If I wait until I'm really horny, then I can get close. But I need to touch to go over the edge. Nipples can't do it for me either, but they can get me even closer. I've tried for an hour but just can't get it to happen.

[Livelaughlove]

Yes it is possiable...

If you go to an r rated hypnotist show they make men and women orgasm on stage. by using words alone... They use a technique called Neuro linguistic programming..

What you have to do is speak in a hypnotic slow pace voice and let the person absorb each word...

Here is a quick example: Note: It will have a greater impact on you if you read it slowly and absorb the words and begin to lead yourself.

I want you to take a second and think of your most intense orgasm you've ever had... Once you remember it I want you to take a deep breath letting the positive thoughts flow through your body... You dont have to say it... Just remember how it felt... As your thinking Notice how your heart begins to beat... Faster... Harder... As you begin to breath your body begins to get warmer... Try to locate where it is most intense... What color is it? As your breathing I want you to make the color brighter...

So on and so on...