[Uneeklyme]

State of mind has so much to do with it.

When we got together my partner told me that receiving oral was not really a turn on or a turn off. Yikes, I love giving so we were a bit at odds on the subject. To clarify, he didn't say he didn't like it, just said he couldn't really get into it and could never come close to orgasm from it. I would tease him every once in a while as foreplay. The more I did and he could tell I liked doing it, the more he started to enjoy it. Trying not to get to graphic but in one particular session as I was really indulging myself and letting him know how much I was enjoying it... he orgasmed. To this day, his eyes glaze over and he gets insta wood when we discuss it.

I am not professing to be any kind of bj wiz or anything either. He says what really did it for him is my actually wanting to do it and enjoying it. He was able to let himself relax and just receive. I think the mind is the biggest sex organ.

You never know if you will like something till you try it. Communication is a key element. Tell your partner you have never done it and are a bit nervous but really want to give it a go. Ask him if he likes what your doing. Remember that the most sensitive part of the penis is at the head so swallowing the whole thing really isnt necessary in case your worried about gag reflex. Try to relax and have fun with it.