[WannaBee]

Reviving an older thread...

Best BJ ever, about 4 days ago.
My g/f wasn't feeling to well and she didn't want vaginal sex. I was really turned on (no sex the day before) and so was she, however she didn't want to have penetrative sex. She gave me a bj (+ an inserted finger) instead.
After I came she took me in her mouth again and I received another treat. Oh man, that day I did not get much work done that day.

As it's been said before "best thing to after sex is some more sex."

Oral vs vaginal sex (my personal opinion!)

What feels better (sensations)
Oral

Better orgasms
vaginal

If I had to choose between the two for one and only one technique for the rest of my life
vaginal

Percentage, oral/vaginal
about 5 % to 95 %

Closer emotional connection
vaginal, by a country mile or two

Where do I last longer
vaginal

[WildChild]

Thank you for that assessment WannaBee. Having spend a couple years with a man who's preference was for oral, this confirms some of what I had thought.

[JRod]

I only skimmed through most of the replies here so thrash me then forgive me if Im off point on anything I say here. I'm 39 years old and have had plenty of partners. Too many in fact lol. So I know a little something. (Not that any of you don't). To pick my BEST BJ ever would be really Hard but I'll tell you what makes for a serious contender is enthusiasm. If you are a woman that just does not like to pleasure a man then he will be able to tell. When a woman Truely loves giving oral pleasure to her man, it shows. It shows in her effort, it can be seen in her eyes, and that is sexy. That will heighten our physical pleasure by way of visually and mentally turning us on. Is that to imply that good technique is not a factor? Of course not. It's a combination of the two. I've read many of your techniques and many of you have it down so no need for me to be redundant here. I will say, just remember to incorporate the hands, don't ingore the balls or the if your man is into that. -Moving on..There seemed to be some discussion as to which was preferred, oral or vaginal. Good points were made on both but for me it's silly to argue about and it's not something that you ladies should be offended about if a man chooses oral. And it's not fair to assume he is child like in his sexual experiences because of his choice. Look, we are All different. Men and women alike. But mostly women. Your DNA code is many time more complex than ours. Over 90% of men are Basically similar wouldn't you say? Give us the B's and were happy. Babes, bikinis, beer, blow jobs, ball games, bbq. Am I right or am I right. Can the same be said about women....eh, not so much so when it comes to the bedroom. I'll save examples for my next reply if any of you are curious as to my justification to that comment. With that said, is it not a mans prerogative to choose without being crucified for it? Personally the sensations are different. Both can be and usually Are mind blowing, but the fact remains that they are differant. Thank God making a life long choice is only hypothetical here. It's like asking which is better and which would you chose for the rest of your life, a ribeye or New York strip? Well Heck, I love em both. Why choose? I guess it just depends on how you season and prepare them? Sounds like a stupid analogy right, but really its' not. Both oral and vaginal rock. They both have their advantages. I can not and will not choose. Someone broke it down into categories such as intimacy, sensation, which do i last longer, etc. That was good cause he was right and that was His opinion which he was more than entitled to. -I've said it before and I'll say it again. We all love talking sex, that's why we're here. But sometimes it gets a little too analytical. Let's just be happy we'er having it. I know lots of couples that are not, can not, will not. -Have a great weekend all...happy humpin;-)

[Mitchel1870]

Having never had this I still wonder what it would be like. Sounds like there are some lucky guys out there.

[ltsang]

yea. way too lucky. ! I never had a blow job from my wife. I wished I do though.

[WannaBee]

Maybe not the best ever. But do try it in the bath tub.

You might have to shower afterwards

[ultrablue]

i had a girlfriend who really loved to give BJ, I preferred vaginal sex with her because she was so tight, but she liked to, so I let her,
her vagina felt much better to me,

but it's not just the mouth part that is the main thing to me, it's things like her laying on top of me and feeling her breasts on my thighs (getting hard just thinking about it)

the feel of her hands on me, those things were more important, I can't say about those other things

[Buckness]

Got to be able to reply

I spent 2 1/2years with a woman that loved to suck me. She drank every drop and went back to get any remainer. We had a thing we did. She lay on the bed on her back. She moved to the edge atilted her head back so that she could take more of me in. I called it throat ing. We finished nearly every session with an ORAL bout. I ate her with a passion. Sucking and tongue ing until she came with exererance. I only came inside other than mouth about three times.

[Texasred]

no idea, but I think it has something to do with sex - whatever that might be. (married ~20 years).

What is the old joke - after you are married when you have sex you know its time to pay the rent, and if you have oral sex its time to renew your drivers license.

I'd laugh if it weren't so true!

Next good one I have will be the first.
While I find it mildly pleasurable, I've never had one that took me all the way...

[Buckness]

Suck me

I spent 2 1/2 years with a woman that had been by herself for a couple of years. We got together and quickly started an adventure. Fairly early we did things that we had never done before. She had not spent much time having sex with anyone. We went at each other at all angles. Once she went down on me, I was hooked. She loved the taste of my load and swallowed and cleaned and sucked some more.
We discovered the pleasure of Tongue ing and Thumb ing. I will post more if someone wants to hear.