[WildChild]

I spent 2 1/2 years with a woman that had been by herself for a couple of years. We got together and quickly started an adventure. Fairly early we did things that we had never done before. She had not spent much time having sex with anyone. We went at each other at all angles. Once she went down on me, I was hooked. She loved the taste of my load and swallowed and cleaned and sucked some more.
We discovered the pleasure of Tongue ing and Thumb ing. I will post more if someone wants to hear.

This thread is a specific topic. You may want to take additional discussion of how tos pleasuring a female partner over to the Clitical Thinking thread.

[katie7115]

my husband love it when i brush my teeth first and then keep a lil bit of mouthwash in my mouth! very tingly is what he says lol to be fair though i think he loves any type of oral!

[Krazy_glu3]

The first time Ive even given a blowjob was to my husband. It was also his first time and he said it was great. Im not sure what I did to make it great.. It was probably because it was just his first time, haha. He said that swallowing adding a whole new level of hottness to a BJ.
But years later, I have a tongue ring, and have 'discovered' things. He says it feels so amazing when I give him a BJ with my tongue ring. Another thing that drives him absolutely crazy is when I lick the underside of his , down to his balls, specifically right where the two meet. I lightly flicked my tongue at the area where they meet and he cant contain himself. He says its too much feel good at one time haha. But he loves it and makes him moan ;]

[Elcat]

I have often wondered what it is that makes a good blow job. Every man I've ever been down on, which doesn't amount to very many, has said mine are amazing and the best they've ever had. So I've thought about what I do and nothing special comes to mind. The only possible difference that I can think of is that I genuinely love doing it, in fact I can't get enough. It's all completely intuitive - I don't have any particular pattern of things that I do, I just do what feels right at the time, and often the first thing in my mind is what I like rather than what he likes. I find the whole process, and even just the thought of it, extremely arousing and I believe that this feeling somehow transmits and adds that extra something that isn't easy to quantify. The idea that your enjoyment is key has been said before, and I'm just echoing it really. Enjoy it! Figure out what you like about it and let yourself be involved in that rather than seeing it as something that's just for him. I find the different textures - smoothness, firmness, ridges, and the different effects of these on you teeth/tongue/lips - incredibly exciting. Different angles are good too; I once pulled it downwards towards me and his feet and it immediately sent him over the edge. There are so many possibilities. Play around with it and learn to enjoy it for yourself, that's what makes it great!

[Buckness]

Swallowing does add a special level to a BJ. I went years without any of my women wanting to swallow. Then I hit the mother load as revealed in my past post.

[Buckness]

IT is a wonderfull thing

[Buckness]

Try her in the mouth. much like you do when you are having regular sex. Same motions. Penetration variations are good. If she can take you completely in her mouth or throat, cuddos.

[WildChild]

Try her in the mouth. much like you do when you are having regular sex. Same motions. Penetration variations are good. If she can take you completely in her mouth or throat, cuddos.

This thread is for specifics and this isn't. If a man wants to completely turn off a woman who is inexperienced in giving BJs this would be how to do it and a good way to for him to end up with teeth scrapes.

[Guest]

My first one was GREAT!!!!! My gf used to wake me up by giving me a blow job, OMG, it was fantastic to wake up with her looking at me with me in her mouth as far as she could take it in. I still think about it and it turns me on So much. One morning, she was right in the middle of "waking me up" and I was right in mid cum stage, let me tell you right now, The best part of waking up Is Most Definately Not with Folger's in your cup!!! I've never had a woman swallow and wish my wife was into just licking around but she thinks that stuff is nasty.
About the only thing I can add to this is, let your partner know what you do and do not like. And Never grab her head thinking it will turn her on. I can't prove it, but I think someone did that to my wife and now I have to suffer from his actions. Let her do her own thing and just enjoy it, love is never forceful or demanding. Some men ruin the fun for other men and THAT I DISLIKE VERY MUCH!

[kristalyn_04]

I have often wondered what it is that makes a good blow job. Every man I've ever been down on, which doesn't amount to very many, has said mine are amazing and the best they've ever had. So I've thought about what I do and nothing special comes to mind. The only possible difference that I can think of is that I genuinely love doing it, in fact I can't get enough. It's all completely intuitive - I don't have any particular pattern of things that I do, I just do what feels right at the time, and often the first thing in my mind is what I like rather than what he likes. I find the whole process, and even just the thought of it, extremely arousing and I believe that this feeling somehow transmits and adds that extra something that isn't easy to quantify. The idea that your enjoyment is key has been said before, and I'm just echoing it really. Enjoy it! Figure out what you like about it and let yourself be involved in that rather than seeing it as something that's just for him. I find the different textures - smoothness, firmness, ridges, and the different effects of these on you teeth/tongue/lips - incredibly exciting. Different angles are good too; I once pulled it downwards towards me and his feet and it immediately sent him over the edge. There are so many possibilities. Play around with it and learn to enjoy it for yourself, that's what makes it great!

It is not so much about skill than enthusiasm. Yes, there needs to be at least some skill involved. But even for first-timers, just the fact that you are willing to do it and are enthusiastic about it, like you can't wait to have him in your mouth and pleasure him, then I guarantee he will enjoy it. He should be willing to guide you and give you cues when you do something that he likes, and be open to suggestion. It's a continual learning experience, and an adventure that I'm sure your guy wouldn't mind experiencing with you one bit. There's nothing hotter than being so close to his manhood, having him in your mouth, the taste, the texture, his sounds of enjoyment, being in complete control of his pleasure, and knowing that it's not just the feeling that gets him off but YOU.