[chaya]

I am bisexual and live with my husband and my girlfriend. I regularly have sex with both of them, never at the same time. She is lesbian and would never get involved with a man. He knows that I have sex with her and don't mind. I make it a rule to never have sex with my girlfriend after I have been with my husband.

Is it possible for my girlfriend to get pregnant from "second hand sperm" that might still be live in me? This is a concern with me so I never go to her the same day I have been with my husband and I take extra care in cleaning myself down there.

[kira]

Women having sex doesn't have the same level of penetration and sperm does not survive outside the body. Also the vagina is actually an inhospitable place for sperm. Semen fluid helps protect it but it needs to get pushed up into your uterus or it will die quickly in the vagina. For those reason I'm not sure there's any risk at all that pregnancy could occur that way.

[Claret]

You do not have to have penetration to have sperm get into the vagina. Indeed many pregnancies have occurred where there has been no penetration at all, just ejaculate around the inside of the vulva. Sperm are a little more mobile than we think and if they are assisted by a finger, a tongue or a penis can find their way home. The likelihood is very slim as kira stated but there still can be the possibility. They do die quickly outside the body but as long as there is any secretions they can live up to several hours (or more at times depending upon the circumstances).

If you clean yourself well and don't go quickly from one partner to the other you should be ok.

[Motorguy]

Well as they say anything can be possible. The old rule never say never. So guys thinking that pulling out this can keep the women they are with not get pregnant. That doesn't work because precum carries sperm as well. Believe me it's doesn't work my youngest daughter was born because of this birth control method. I can pretty much say not a good idea at all if you are not trying to get wife pregnant at all lol.