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Christmas time less sex or more?
The GF is probably under more stress at Christmas time then day to day life (she has a low pressure good paying job, lucky gal). I noticed her usually sensual self has taken a nose dive the last two weeks. Her daughter returned with bf being off from college. The sounds from that room are in full mode lol. In general does your sex drive take a nose dive or ramp up this time of year. Maybe its because she knows her daughter and bf are down the hall ? -
Well many people get stress around this time of the year. Myself not really or the wife we just do are thing and get done what we can get done with kids help. But the GF let's her daughter have a boy friend sleep with her under her roof and not married. Well that would not fly in my house as my daughters would never even push that issue with me or there mother at all period. But I am guessing many have different values of doing this under there parents roof. But I can see that having issue with girl friend with sex knowing her adult daughter with BF are right down the hall together they may hear the sex noise from you two may be bothering your GF with the whole situation...When out driving always turn left. Then, should you become lost, you can find your way home by reversing the procedure and always turning right. -
Having to be very quiet while having sex or foreplay because someone near may hear it can make it more exciting. See if your gf is game.I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
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We've been running around from place to place seeing family and friends, several little Christmas parties, etc. which I absolutely love! However it does tend to leave me personally a little spent at the end of the day when it's one thing after another. That could be part of it. I'm sure having her daughter down the hall is part of it too. My husband and I slept at my parents house before and I won't do it there knowing my parents are 2 doors down lol. So, I'm sure that's a factor. Things will start to be normal again soon sure 😊Comment
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Well Muffin, you always have New Year's Eve coming up maybe you can enjoy some good sex with wife then too lol. Some champagne along with dancing always tends to lead to some good sex. They say New Year Eve is the most popular day of having sex I wonder why may start the year off with a good bang I know a bad joke lol.When out driving always turn left. Then, should you become lost, you can find your way home by reversing the procedure and always turning right.Comment
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It's my GF's house and her daughter so I feel its is her call about rules in her house. I have a condo which I now rent out. Personally I am ok with her 20 year old unmarried daughter having sex in her mothers house. The GF can do the quiet ride pretty well but yeh nottin while daughter was here. In the past when her daughter came over (no boyfriend) its was the daughter subjected to the down the hall noises. Maybe it was revenge time lol. Daughter has gone back to her father today so I am expecting GF to ramp it up
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We have more sex when on vacation and I have vacation at this time of the year. So, it's more sex for us. Being atheists help, since we don't find anything special about a particular day of the year. We also don't have children. Putting it all together, it means sex is on top of our priorities, Xmas or not Xmas, and we always find the time (with very few exceptions).Comment
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