[Texasred]

Cialis works longer; you can take it at night and it's still very effective the next morning, and even the next night. And it still works fine with moderate alcohol intake.
Viagra lasts about an hour, as does Levitra.
Stendra acts much more quickly than the other 3, in 15 - 20 minutes, but still only lasts 1 - 1.5 hours.

[Milla-gross]

I'm not a man, but yeah, it works. It will help keep you hard after you ejaculate and that's exactly what you want. And yes, Cialis works for longer.

[Texasred]

I don't know that I completely agree that Cialis etc. will keep you hard after you ejaculate, but the recovery period can be much shorter. If you *really* want to stay hard, there is a shot (self-administered...) that will keep you hard no matter what happens. These are normally only prescribed for someone with ED, but the shot absolutely works, and depending on the dosage, can last for 2 - 3 hours. And believe it or not, it's not as painful as you might think.

[muffin70]

thanks for the replies - I spoke to my wife about it and she said I shouldn't be too worried, because she is happy with me just the way I am. But I just can't help thinking that maybe I am inadequate because I can't last longer than 2 minutes.... wife said I'm getting worried about nothing

[JessyJess]

What do you mean she wouldn't touch your erection? You try to do everything for her to enjoy and she wouldn't even touch you?? It seems kinda weird to me...

[JessyJess]

Especially that what we have is much "grosser" if you think about it.

[Findingluckystar]

Ok this is for the men out there but women feel free to comment too

Has anyone tried Viagra or Cialis or similar??

I don’t have erection problems – quite the opposite…. but the problem I do have is not being able to last very long during sex - usually 1-2 mins. Sometimes I feel I have to apologise to my wife for my lack of staying power…. But she always replies “as long as you enjoyed it…” I do enjoy it, but feel if I was able to last a bit longer, then she’d enjoy it more too.

My thinking is, I could take Viagra or Cialis to stay hard – meaning once I’ve had my initial orgasm after 1-2 mins I can continue making love to my wife and have a second orgasm…. Meaning she may enjoy it more.

Any thoughts?

I really admire & wanting to know the secret of how your wife enjoys the very short VIP session. For me, I really like vip but hb has PE especially after his prostate surgery,therefore he got cialis or Viagra but he hardly take them, I'm not sure is because of his egoism or just too much work "to wait" for them to work, so our sex sessions always ended up with me frustrated and hence my warnings of " no touching me if you're not on pills " , I know I'm mean but I can't be left feeling being used all the time.
In regards to which is better, I know for sure cialis can last up to 36 hours whereas Viagra only last 5 hours or so.

[Texasred]

. For me, I really like vip but hb has PE especially after his prostate surgery,therefore he got cialis or Viagra but he hardly take them, I'm not sure is because of his egoism or just too much work "to wait" for them to work, so our sex sessions always ended up with me frustrated and hence my warnings of " no touching me if you're not on pills " , I know I'm mean but I can't be left feeling being used all the time.

I can't blame you one bit: you're not being mean, he's being terribly inconsiderate: I know how I'd feel if my SO were to get me all aroused and then at the last moment say, "Sorry, I changed my mind - I've got a headache." It would have to make you crazy!
You might try some evening just putting a Cialis pill next to his dinner plate!
I've gotten that not-so-subtle hint on a couple occasions... :-)