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    Hello everyone, it's been well over a year since I've been on this site but I know it used to be pretty active. Hope everyone is doing well and ready for the holidays. A topic has come up for me that never really came to mind in the past. I was wondering how common it was for the ladies to give oral immediately following penetration prior to "wiping it off"? I don't really have a lot of experience in the matter but know that my ex used to do it but my current is repulsed by it. I know that it's personal preference and there are hygiene matters that contribute but do more women do it or not do it is what I'm wondering. Thanks everyone :-)

  • I have no idea the answer to that question, but I'm also curious about the men who'd give their woman oral after having had intercourse with her. Whether he had or had not ejaculated inside.

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    • kitty, I've given a woman oral immediately after having intercourse with her. Then given her a wet kiss. And, of course, shared food.

      I wonder how many guys have allowed a woman to give them a wet kiss after taking care of them.

      I suspect that there is a double standard.
      I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
      ...
      Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?

      From a speech by Patrick Henry on March 23, 1775 at St. John's Church, Richmond, Virginia

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      • I thought so too jns, but I expected it to be more likely the women were more accommodating!

        I've done this, but I admit the first time or two, it did make me a bit squeamish. But I've yet to have a partner who was willing to do the same.
        The "opportunity" doesn't arise every day tho, of course.

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        • I enjoy giving my wife oral after intercourse. She loves it too.

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          • I gave oral after blowing my load in her for the first time a year or 2 ago. I was quite hesitant at first to do it for the first time. The idea came after online search, where I found out that many girls liked it. So I thought I would try it out. My wife did not know anything before it happend, but she was very positive about it afterwards as she said it was new and exciting, and that she thought it was hot. So I've done it several times after that as well, and she seems to like it very well. She seems to enjoy that she can have the final pleasure of the sex act.

            For me I've found out it's all about personal restrictions and when I finally tried it. I actually did not mind. Again I would love for her to swollow, and how could I want that if I can't touch my own sperm with my mouth. When going down on her I can play with her juices with no problem as well.

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            • The woman I'm dating still does this. When she senses I'm ready to cum, she'll finish me with head. Many times she'll want me to cum on her, especially her ****. She likes it on her face, too. She just loves cum.

              Many years ago, when we were dating, she told me that she was very sexually active during her college years. She went off of the pill because it made her gain weight. She had to come up with ways of avoiding getting knocked up. One of her techniques was to give her boyfriends head instead of cumming inside of her. She perfected sensing when a guy was ready to cum, have him pull out of her, and finish him with head. That way, they were both happy. She used other techniques, but giving head was the method she seemed to like most.

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              • My wife loves it when I stop during sex and lick her out. But I know she would never let me lick her out after I cum inside her. I often think about this and when I'm horny before I've cum I want to do so bad. But then as soon as I do cum I can't bring myself to try it. Is that strange?

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                • Beeni,

                  It's not something I'd do, but if it's something that you want to do, I think your wife would allow it.

                  As long as its not degrading or intentionally demeaning (dirty talk that's for sexual stimulation only) if both partners willingly agree, git er dun.

                  BTW, for clarification, my g/f wants me to call her everything but human during sex. She loves graphic sex talk, especially involving an imaginary other dude doing her at the same time. Out of a bedroom, she reverts to queen, and not porn queen.

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                  • My SO and I have no problem giving oral after sex. We're constantly sharing body fluid and neither of us is bothered at all by it. If anything it just makes our bond even more closer and special as we aren't put off at all my each other. I think you have to really be into your partner to do it.

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                    • A couple days ago, my g/f was particularly horny. She was good for a long time. I have no idea how many times I was inside of her and then down her throat. I was banging her when I could no longer prevent the inevitable. I asked her where she wanted it. She couldn't make up her mind. So it was inside of her. If I could of held out a few seconds longer, I'd of put it on her face and watch her play with it.

                      She came at least 7 times that night and twice more in the morning. She loves to awaken with my head between her legs.

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                      • Me going down on my wife after I've cum in her to clean her up/out is the most intimate thing we do. We both love it.

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                        • My ex-gf liked to lick me after I came, and then kiss me. And she loved it when I would lick her after cumming inside her, and then kiss her. We loved the intimacy, an intimacy I've never had before or since.

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                          • Very few couples experience the intimacy of sexual after-play. Most engage in some foreplay before the main event and then roll over to sleep or go straight to the kitchen afterwards. I personally think there is something very special about enjoying the aftermath of an intimate encounter.

                            The first time we had sex, I gave my current partner oral sex to completion and he took me by complete surprise. He pulled my face up to his and started French-kissing me. I had swallowed most of the cum by then but there was still some inside my mouth mixed with my saliva. Up until then, I've never had a guy taste himself and it became the wettest kiss I ever experienced.

                            The next time we had sex, we engaged in loads of foreplay and then had intercourse. After he came inside me, I went down on him and started cleaning our mess. I've always enjoyed tasting my own juices even when I masturbated and his cum mixed with mine was delicious. This time I kept some of the juices in my mouth and gave him a big wet kiss. He seemed to be enjoying it every bit as much as I.

                            Much to my delight, he pushed me on my back with his face between my open legs and commenced licking me from my tailbone on upwards. I knew that I was completely soaked from several juicy orgasms of my own mixed his cum and he eventually gave me another powerful climax. We spent the next several minutes kissing and tasting each other on our faces, mouths, and lips. Fast forward to today, and we both love after-play. I have since talked about this with my circle of friends. Apparently none of their partners would ever consider after-play and I do detect some jealousy from a couple of the girls, lol.

                            I don't think there should be any hygiene concerns (unless anal is involved), so you have nothing to worry about.

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                            • Originally posted by Monique Kova View Post
                              Very few couples experience the intimacy of sexual after-play. Most engage in some foreplay before the main event and then roll over to sleep or go straight to the kitchen afterwards. I personally think there is something very special about enjoying the aftermath of an intimate encounter.

                              The first time we had sex, I gave my current partner oral sex to completion and he took me by complete surprise. He pulled my face up to his and started French-kissing me. I had swallowed most of the cum by then but there was still some inside my mouth mixed with my saliva. Up until then, I've never had a guy taste himself and it became the wettest kiss I ever experienced.

                              The next time we had sex, we engaged in loads of foreplay and then had intercourse. After he came inside me, I went down on him and started cleaning our mess. I've always enjoyed tasting my own juices even when I masturbated and his cum mixed with mine was delicious. This time I kept some of the juices in my mouth and gave him a big wet kiss. He seemed to be enjoying it every bit as much as I.

                              Much to my delight, he pushed me on my back with his face between my open legs and commenced licking me from my tailbone on upwards. I knew that I was completely soaked from several juicy orgasms of my own mixed his cum and he eventually gave me another powerful climax. We spent the next several minutes kissing and tasting each other on our faces, mouths, and lips. Fast forward to today, and we both love after-play. I have since talked about this with my circle of friends. Apparently none of their partners would ever consider after-play and I do detect some jealousy from a couple of the girls, lol.

                              I don't think there should be any hygiene concerns (unless anal is involved), so you have nothing to worry about.

                              Originally posted by jns View Post
                              kitty, I've given a woman oral immediately after having intercourse with her. Then given her a wet kiss. And, of course, shared food.

                              I wonder how many guys have allowed a woman to give them a wet kiss after taking care of them.

                              I suspect that there is a double standard.
                              Maybe your friends should take the lead to get the guys into it. Probably some are squeamish but others might be up for it.
                              I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
                              ...
                              Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?

                              From a speech by Patrick Henry on March 23, 1775 at St. John's Church, Richmond, Virginia

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