[muffin70]

Does anyone give their partner sexual favours in return for something?

Mrs Muffin wants an i-phone 6 for Christmas… I was not keen on getting one because they are over $1000NZ and she already has an i-phone 4s that works fine, but she really wants one…. So I played with her emotions a bit and said she would have get her scarves out to pleasure me – and I will have a talk to Santa to see if she has been a good girl.

Well last night she gave me a slow hand job with one of her scarves – boy was it good!
I said if she continues to do more of that then Santa might grant her wish :-)

[Stillness]

No, not really. It feels prostituty to me, and I think to my wife too.

For play, maybe a little. Mostly in the form of a wager, like when we're arguing about the lyrics of a song. It's kind of weak, though, because we pretty much do to each other what the other person wants.

[atskitty2]

Are you really dangling the iPhone over her head, like a child, or does she know you intend to get it for her regardless and this is all in fun?
Seriously?

[muffin70]

well no - she asked for a new I-phone a while ago and I thought she was joking, but she really wants one..... I jokingly said she'd have to be very good to me with her scarves in the bedroom if she wants an I-phone from Santa and she has obliged :-)

[Ashlee T.]

Nope. Can't say that I do. But, if it's all in good fun and you're both enjoying it.......... to each their own. I do hope you're not actually using that to determine whether she's worthy of the gift though.

[time2discover]

I know my answer is a little late and she probably has the i-phone by now, but I think, so long as you're not busting your budget or sensing she
doesn't really want to do it and forces herself. Have fun! Manipulation can be fun! I've always used it with my husband, my kids, and they always
laughed and reminded me how good I was at it!

[muffin70]

thanks for the replies..... We visited the in-laws at Christmas (father in-law quite sick) and mother in-law gave my wife some money and said 'spend this on something for yourself'.
So wife bought her I-phone 6s... I also bought a new bass amplifier for my band, but only on the condition I sell the old one (which I have done).

she knows I am defenseless if she wears a pretty scarf while she pleasures me.....

[Motorguy]

Oh so every thing worked out in the long run Muffin for you and wife. She got her new I phone 6s and you the new amplifier. Not counting the pleasure of the scarfs fun from the wife lol. So win win I say for you both lol. 😋😊🤗👍

[rcoreyus]

I think pretending to offer sexual favors in return for other things is a fine game. Actually exchanging sex for favors seems like a bad direction to go. It can lead to a tendency to seflishness in bed - why do favors for your partner for free when you can get something in return instead.

[muffin70]

I think pretending to offer sexual favors in return for other things is a fine game. Actually exchanging sex for favors seems like a bad direction to go. It can lead to a tendency to seflishness in bed - why do favors for your partner for free when you can get something in return instead.

she has offered me sexual favours before but when the time came to 'redeem' them she was not in the mood, or it was too late and she was tired or something