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  • CJBTDC
    Junior Member
    • Apr 2008
    • 2

    Female Ejaculation Question

    Hi!

    Me and my boyfriend have been having sex for almost a year now and I am starting to have more feelings while having sex or I am just starting to actually relax. Since i've been relaxing, i've been "squirting", the term used for it. I've been researching that the female ejaculation has some urine in it and then in some articles it says it doesn't. Mine smells pretty strong of urine(in my opinion, but my boyfriend says it's a slight smell). Am I peeing? A lot comes out in one spert...is it normal? Especially the smell, is that normal? I even go to the bathroom before I have sex and it's been doing the same thing.

    Thanks!
  • Jasminls05
    Junior Member
    • Apr 2008
    • 8

    wow you have actullay ejaculated? ive been having sex with my boyfriend for a little less than a year but i cant even have an orgasim from intercourse! sorry i couldnt help you with your questions but ive never known anyone to do that ive just heard of it

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    • C
      Member
      • Aug 2007
      • 900

      Originally posted by CJBTDC
      Hi!

      Me and my boyfriend have been having sex for almost a year now and I am starting to have more feelings while having sex or I am just starting to actually relax. Since i've been relaxing, i've been "squirting", the term used for it. I've been researching that the female ejaculation has some urine in it and then in some articles it says it doesn't. Mine smells pretty strong of urine(in my opinion, but my boyfriend says it's a slight smell). Am I peeing? A lot comes out in one spert...is it normal? Especially the smell, is that normal? I even go to the bathroom before I have sex and it's been doing the same thing.

      Thanks!
      If he is stimulating your G-spot or if you are giving all that you are sexually to him like when he is eating you and licking you and possibly some soft finger stimulation you may be trying to ejaculate...When he is doing this and you have the urge to pee, then go with it....You may find a small amount of urine to start but the valve that let's the urine release shuts off when the ejaculate in you starts...If you ever truly ejaculate a lot when this active happening starts, then you will seldom get any urine...The ejaculate is a very pleasant clover sweet smelling and tasting water of love. When it leaves you it will feel so wonderful and make you moan with longing...You will remember that into the day as the pleasure is just plain delicious. Don't worry about your boyfriend drinking this as it is said to be like the fountain of youth. I guess I believe this as there are many things about me that just do not make sense.. I hope this helps. Take care, Caroline

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      • CJBTDC
        Junior Member
        • Apr 2008
        • 2

        Thanks!

        Well, we still can't figure out anything, when we are having sex I get tingly and then pressure then it just goes, I mean it feels good but nothing I think orgasmic. I have never had an orgasm before I dont think or else I would have remembered it.


        Any suggestions on how to reach one? We can have sex for an hour ish and it just feels realllly goood.




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        • CHANDLERS WISH
          • Mar 2008
          • 22440

          Originally posted by CJBTDC
          Thanks!

          Well, we still can't figure out anything, when we are having sex I get tingly and then pressure then it just goes, I mean it feels good but nothing I think orgasmic. I have never had an orgasm before I dont think or else I would have remembered it.


          Any suggestions on how to reach one? We can have sex for an hour ish and it just feels realllly goood.

          Okay i am not one to talk about this, as it just happened first time, out of the blue type of thing... That "sqirting" eqaculating.....Tingling, pressure.. Babe, that is the MOST orgasmic you can ever ever experience. Many women can not do that, it is not long, but it is bitter sweet, and it means that you have gone beyond "orgasm" it is orgasmic in it's truer form, so you don't remember because you have never felt it..

          It will happen again, it has happened to me, i cried if you want the truth because to me, it was like, well what the?

          It is a very different feeling to cuming from cliteral or virginal orgasms and therefore, a totally new experience. But it is the height of a woman, it is different for sure...

          Don't think that you haven't had an orgasm you just had the best one.

          CW...
          PUT A LITTLE 'LIKE' IN MY SOUL!

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          • C
            Member
            • Aug 2007
            • 900

            Originally posted by CJBTDC
            Thanks!

            Well, we still can't figure out anything, when we are having sex I get tingly and then pressure then it just goes, I mean it feels good but nothing I think orgasmic. I have never had an orgasm before I dont think or else I would have remembered it.


            Any suggestions on how to reach one? We can have sex for an hour ish and it just feels realllly goood.

            Just stay doing what you are doing...True female ejaculation only comes with a lover....This is not clitoral or vagainal but comes from the stimulation of the G-spot and the feeling of lust and giving...It is when the hot waters of love come through the uretha that you just plain disappear in time...It is a combination of the stimulating of the vaginal canal by the penis that can bring this on and letting a man enter your soul through eating you out and letting him find this new place in you that you are letting go...Science has told me that very few women know the true place of ejaculation where I have found and it truly does make me who I am......That is why I am here...

            Good luck and have fun, Caroline

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            • CHANDLERS WISH
              • Mar 2008
              • 22440

              Well if i can, it doesn't only come with a lover or a penis! I am living proof..

              But it does come with "trust" which is your question pertaining to "relaxed"...

              When you are in a total state of trust, being relaxed with him there is "no, no go zone"...And as different things materialize you are comfortable to talk to each other about it. That is trust and therefore total relaxation of your body with his... So, yes, it is because you are relaxed and sensual.

              You don't have to be in love in fact that is one side only:-

              You can be in lust of the desire of either the man himself, or the words he speaks, or truthfully, the finding of yourself and your body on your own, that sexual, sensual, desire side of you as a person, but you must be totally relaxed with your body and yourself.
              PUT A LITTLE 'LIKE' IN MY SOUL!

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              • C
                Member
                • Aug 2007
                • 900

                Originally posted by CHANDLERS WISH
                Well if i can, it doesn't only come with a lover or a penis! I am living proof..

                But it does come with "trust" which is your question pertaining to "relaxed"...

                When you are in a total state of trust, being relaxed with him there is "no, no go zone"...And as different things materialize you are comfortable to talk to each other about it. That is trust and therefore total relaxation of your body with his... So, yes, it is because you are relaxed and sensual.

                You don't have to be in love in fact that is one side only:-

                You can be in lust of the desire of either the man himself, or the words he speaks, or truthfully, the finding of yourself and your body on your own, that sexual, sensual, desire side of you as a person, but you must be totally relaxed with your body and yourself.
                You stated it was thick and I believe something on that order....CW, I am not at liberty to go into this anymore....You can believe what you want to about your sexual self and go to any places that you want to in your mind to believe this....Each of us women is different. You can sit in a bathtub and use a G-spot stimulator and make this happen BUT it is not the true ejaculate that a woman has in deep passion....Again, I will not go into this any more as it is too personal...

                I am living proof of what a true ejaculating woman is...Many changes in myself and my husband...It has changed all of me...There is one thing about me that is so amazing that I would never divulge it here. It must be taken on trust...I would tell it to Jessica only as her secret but not want it to be going out on the web pages....That is just the way it is...

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                • Private.Flangeamin

                  Originally posted by CarolineWH
                  You stated it was thick and I believe something on that order....CW, I am not at liberty to go into this anymore....Again, I will not go into this any more as it is too personal...

                  .There is one thing about me that is so amazing that I would never divulge it here. It must be taken on trust...I would tell it to Jessica only as her secret but not want it to be going out on the web pages....
                  OK .we understand you dont want to talk about female ejaculation any more and that it is too personal . i agree with you !

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                  • CHANDLERS WISH
                    • Mar 2008
                    • 22440

                    CJBTDC
                    Me and my boyfriend have been having sex for almost a year now and I am starting to have more feelings while having sex or I am just starting to actually relax. Since i've been relaxing, i've been "squirting",
                    ChandlersWish
                    But it does come with "trust" which is your question pertaining to "relaxed"...
                    Caroline
                    It must be taken on trust...
                    Clearly, i have not denied that it must be taken on "trust", but in love? No, i very much disagree.

                    CJBTDC
                    Thanks!
                    Well, we still can't figure out anything,
                    This was stated after your reply, hense i whilst stating well i didn't really want to go there, replied again. As, another woman whom has experienced ejaculation... To try to assist with the answer.

                    Caroline
                    You stated it was thick and I believe something on that order....CW, I am not at liberty to go into this anymore....You can believe what you want to about your sexual self and go to any places that you want to in your mind to believe this..
                    Well of course, urine is thin is it not, liquid watery, considering mine actually "squirted and not once but twice, although the second smaller" and saturated my bed and was absolutely "intense", from the urtethra, an "intense orgasm" i was stating that i was aware that i was not urinating, in my way of stating it.

                    Mmm, a bit cutting (C), you see, it is not in my mind at all. It not only happened but has happened since and with "trust" and being "relaxed" with myself, only difference is, is that my sex was over the telephone not in person but still with a "trust" of my relationship and "my own experiements" which actually is stated as a fact that you can do it by yourself from your own experiements, how do you think i got where i am? By words alone? Or by trusting myself to experiment with my own body and find all the places that i have never been? And, then in turn trusting this man, to take me there when we are together, does it matter that his "makeshift" was inside of me at the time not him? It was him... Visualisation is a fantastic thing, so are fantasies, so is real life. I know of people here that i am sure visualise when doing, as their partner is away and is not able to be there, but whilst they have their experience it is with "him" in mind...

                    I am an "INTENSE" "PASSIONATE" Woman, as i said, it is written that you can actually achieve this and more, by your "OWN EXPERIEMENTATION"... And, i am very pleased that i am open enough, passionate enough and intense enough to be able to do so.

                    Caroline
                    BUT it is not the true ejaculate that a woman has in deep passion....
                    I appreciate that you talk of your experience, coming from "deep passion" of your husband, perhaps you may appreciate that anything is possible about "DEEP PASSION" with life, there I am living proof.

                    Dear me..... There is no right or wrong, ejaculation is ejaculation, it is written as a 'sign of intense sexual pleasure", "intense orgasm" " can be from own experimental"..

                    It is also stated that " Modern Science still do not know exactly yet, what it is or why?"..

                    I have absolutely looked it up much like people here asking questions, to seek answers.

                    I am of course SEEKING to be the ulitmate sexual person "FOR MYSELF" that i can be, because it has become another "PASSION" for me.

                    In fact, i felt embarrased the other day, i actually said F a few times, now to me, F is okay if you want to say, i want you to F me, but when i "ejaculated" again, i said it in that reference. The next day i sent a message that i believe in being a lady, if he did not make me feel so "intense" lol, perhaps, i would be okay.

                    The reply i got was ... you are an intense person, lol...

                    So, he clearly sees that i am an intense passionate woman..

                    CJBTDC, may i recommend that you google "GO ASK ALICE" she explains it perfectly.

                    I am just pleased that i have developed a "stronger sense of myself, as an independent sexual being and therefore have assumed a sense of sexual agency"..

                    Perhaps if i am lucky!!! I can marry this man and have it over and over again, for years to come!!

                    If not, well, i'm happy to continue with my own experiements and enjoy my own ride..... At least i'm not giving it up to just anyone, but me, and well who ever he is, hopefully this man...

                    Opinions are opinions and well, we are all equal to explain anything that we experience if it is pertained to answering a thread i feel..

                    Sad to have to feel that i have to explain myself.

                    I'll get over it.

                    CW
                    PUT A LITTLE 'LIKE' IN MY SOUL!

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