[jns]

Ladies, do you get off riding your SO's face? I have been on the bottom side and it's great fun matching her motion and seeing her tremble as she climaxes. What has been your experience? Men can answer, too. Are there a lot of people out there who want to try but don't have a willing partner?

[atskitty2]

My ex husband asked for that a few times. I would've enjoyed it, but he'd wrap his arms around my legs and force me down onto him harder and it was painful, as he had coarse facial hair. I'd be raw for days, and he didn't understand, or was too caught up in the moment to realise I wasn't enjoying it. I refused after 2 or 3 tries. I begged him to stop, but he just didn't get it.<br />
I'd be willing to do it again.

[jns]

Your ex didn't get it in several ways. First is of course, is the coarse facial hair. As soon as the hair becomes like sandpaper or stiff bristles, it isn't fun for contacting tender skin. I've had my face poked a bit raw by her hair being at the stiff bristle length. Secondly, this is a position where the lady on top should be setting the rhythm and motion. Holding on too hard is definitely wrong. Lightly pulling her forward with your hands on her butt is fun, but don't interfere with her rhythm or the amount of contact she wants.

[atskitty2]

You're right, he didn't get it in a lot of ways<br />
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Lol

[Ashlee T.]

I don't get off doing it. But I enjoy it quite a lot.

[Lexhill]

I've have been giving it this way to my SO some times. She does enjoy it, but prefers other ways as she can't relax and enjoy completly then. For me I loved the shivering as I got her over he edge, on the same time she was afraid of crushing me, Which is not possible considering her size.

My guess is for me it's tried and succeded, but will most likely not happend again.

[rcoreyus]

Isn't that what the handcuffs are for ;-).

Seriously though, like any sexual activity it isn't going to be enjoyable if your partner isn't trying to find a way to please you.

My ex husband asked for that a few times. I would've enjoyed it, but he'd wrap his arms around my legs and force me down onto him harder and it was painful, as he had coarse facial hair. I'd be raw for days, and he didn't understand, or was too caught up in the moment to realise I wasn't enjoying it. I refused after 2 or 3 tries. I begged him to stop, but he just didn't get it.<br />
I'd be willing to do it again.

[atskitty2]

Great of you to rejoin us rcorey<br />
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Yeah, pretty sure had I asked to introduce handcuffs it wouldve been game over...wish I'd thought to hide them and I could've whipped them out and had one arm done before he knew it. <br />
He was bigger and stronger, but I'm fast and stealthy! Lol

[rcoreyus]

I've always thought of face riding as a female dominant activity. No necessarialy whips and chains dominant, but one where the woman gets to control the action for her pleasure. The fun for the man (and it IS fun), is in her enjoyment/ pleasure. Of course I can imagine it would different for different people.

My wife has done it a couple of times but sadly doesn't really enjoy it. I think its great fun.

[muffin70]

I've not tried this with my wife.... she is a very plus size woman and has a slightly dodgy knee so for her to get into that position would be uncomfortable for her. I's love to do it though