[Thatgirl93]

I'm 23 years old. I started touching myself since I was 15. It always felt good, but not good enough to reach orgasm.

I had my first sexual Intercourse 3 years ago. Since then, I've been with 3 different men, and they have not been able to make me come, even though I have faked ALL 'orgasms'.

Then, I thought I should make myself orgasm first before anyone else tries. I bought a vibrator. I put it against my clit, and it feels wonderful, my legs will suddenly jerk and I feel some pressure, then.. I just PEE. I know that it's pee because it's yellow - I do it in the shower. I'll do that a couple times and I keep peeing. I try to make sure I empty my bladder before masturbation, but I think something I'd just wrong with me. What could I do?
Again, it feels good, but then pee comes out by itself and I get discouraged and stop.

I then bought a dildo to try a vaginal orgasm, but it's not good quality because it hurts me a lot, even though I use lubrication.

I want to experience an orgasm, but peeing while I stimulate my clitoris is upsetting and I want to try something else before having the courage to go to a doctor and tell them how embarrassing this is for me.

Thank you.

[jns]

Try working on setting the mood such as by playing your favorite sexy scenes in a movie. Maybe put on your favorite perfume.

[Motorguy]

Well, That girl vibrators are not always the right device to achieve orgasm. They're is better devices like a pocket rocket or clit stimulator you can purchase from Amazon or Adult Book store in your town if you have one. It seem you're trying to hard to have a orgasm.You just need to relax I'm not sure you live alone or you're worry you will be caught by family member or boy friend. But just learning you're body with the right devices may help you finally have that long awaited orgasm.Sometimes watching porn can help as well it's taboo so watching something you would never do sexually but it's a turn on for you to watch. Good luck and let us know how it went That Girl.

[Ashlee T.]

Leave the clitoris alone for a bit. Get yourself a toy that stimulates your gspot. Focus on that for a while. Many women make the mistake of buying a big plastic dildo. You need something that isn't huge. Wild Secrets is a great place to discreetly order and they have great prices.

And...........stop faking it. It's like if someone cooks you something and you don't like it but say you do, then they will cook that for you over and over and over. It's important to lead them in the right direction. But as you said, discover what that direction is, by yourself first.