[Tanushka Masreya]

My husband wishes me to have a bigger size of breast much bigger than mine)))) I let him dream about it. I practice some fitnes program which improves my shape, makes it "tasty". I practice Kegel exercises, which are very useful and improve your sexual life. I found the program here

[showmestate1968]

I knew a couple that unintenionally at first, started to 'swing' then it led to more, more risky relationship things, and then someone was stalking one of them and then another time one of them was attracted to someone outside the marriage who they'd met with, and it took years to get through and on to the other side, and they are quite religious now so that helped them, what I'm saying is, if you open a door, another and then another may open that you never expected..... Where do you draw the line? My hubby and I talk about other sexy people but we make it clear to each other we only want each other... I would be afraid to venture into fantasyland, where things should remain... imho

[WaveRider]

It's a common fantasy for women. The woman I'm dating now loves to be naked. She has muted her penchant for exhibitionism somewhat, but she still has tendencies. Late one evening a few weeks ago my neighbor came over for aspirin. My girlfriend was naked and under covers. Actually, I thought she was sleeping. My neighbor walked into my room to get to my bathroom medicine cabinet. When I turned on the bathroom light, my neighbor said, "Nice rack." I saw he was looking at my bed. My girlfriend was laying completely naked for him to see. I blew it off.

She loves to be watched, although we have never been watched. She has when she was in college. She loves to watch, but I've never been with her when she has watched others. She has told me that if I were to take her to a swingers club, she'd go. I think she's a nymphomaniac. She can never have enough sex. She always wants more.

[Ted Garner]

Believe it or not, many men fantasize about sharing their wife with another man. Some want to be present and participate. Some only want to watch. Some want to not be present but listen to all the details afterwards while "reclaiming" their wife. Also, some want only one or a handful of men to be with their wife while other want their wives to have sex with many different men.
Further, entering into the lifestyle no good at strengthening weak relationships. On the other hand, there tend to be, on average, far fewer divorces between couples in the lifestyle then in the general population. This, I believe, is because people in the lifestyle tend to communicate much better and are much more open and accepting (read non-judgmental) about their desires and fantasies. All of this is to explain why you need to have a long and open conversation - baring your sexual souls as it were - and understand exactly what each of you wants from your relationship. There can be no lies, lies of omission, half truths, etc. And neither of you can be judgmental of the other. Each of you has to feel completely safe in exposing your feelings, fantasies and desires. And be honest about your fantasies - share yours with your boyfriend.
Your boyfriend has taken a risk in telling you his fantasies. If you don't want to be with another man, you need to make it very clear that you in no way think less of him for sharing his desires with you but that this does not interest you. If on the other hand this does interest you, before moving ahead you need to have those open discussion to understand exactly what each of you want and to set rules on engagement.
Rules are extremely important and cover many topics - what activities are allowed (for example oral only, penetration, etc.), where (for example - vacation only, out of town only, etc), frequency, who selects the new man and so on. You do not want to find out, when it's too late, that his understanding of sharing you with another man is different than your understanding.
In other words, don't move quickly and talk to someone already in the lifestyle to learn from them.
COMMUNICATION.

[WaveRider]

Ted,

You're right. I have no clue of how many dudes I know who have either watched their wives or girlfriends doing another dude or have wanted it to occur.