[soni_c89]

He wants to watch me have sex with another man. Is this weird?

[atskitty2]

It isn't weird for him to want that necessarily. Is it something you are interested in doing? <br />
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It is not the type of fantasy that should be fulfilled unless both parties involved have discussed all scenarios and possible outcomes first. If you are not 100% on board, I suggest it stay a fantasy. I would discourage you from doing this just for him.

[soni_c89]

Its a turn-on for me because his friend is hot!

[atskitty2]

Well, if it's something that you want to do, then discuss it. Just be prepared for the possibility of negative outcomes as well as positive. Is this going to be a one-time thing? What if you want more? What if he does?<br />
How committed are you and your bf?

[jns]

Fulfilling a fantasy may be best done somewhere where it won't intrude on your normal life. Sort of a "what happens in Vegas stays in Vegas" thing. It may be best to fulfill his fantasy during a vacation with a stranger. Fulfilling it with his friend will bring more complications since you may see each other at other places and rumors can spread.

[muffin70]

I think you should sit down and discuss the whole thing... I've had a dream a couple of times where my wife is being taken from behind by an African American man with a large penis.... my wife thinks that's weird... I've also had dreams about scenes in porn movies I've seen and the female actress is replaced by my wife (she also thinks that is weird too!)
If it's not something you are happy with then tell him and be honest - don't just say NO... perhaps talk to him about other things he may like to do?
I'd personally love to ejaculate over my wifes breasts while she is wearing a pretty scarf around her neck, but I know she doesn't like sperm on her body and certainly wouldn't like it if any got onto her scarf!

[Motorguy]

Well Soni,this is really a slippery slope with a boy friend. Saying you want to watch your girl friend having sex with another man and it's really happening is another. I heard of many relationship ending after the girl friend fell for the guy she's having
sex with in front of the boy friend. This situation seriously needs to be really thought out before jumping into this type of life style before you do. Good luck on whatever you plan on doing.

[DreamP346]

There is a lot of things you can do before getting to that level. Consider role playing. Have your boyfriend dress up as somebody else and record the sex so he can watch is later. Use your imagination. Masturbate in front of him while calling out another man's name. Having fantasies is one thing. Acting on them is another and sometimes real life doesn't work out as smoothly as it did in the fantasy. If you two do decide to go this route, take baby steps. Start with using your imagination, to flirting, to kissing, etc. Talk about it after each step to make sure both of you are truly comfortable with the idea. Don't just jump into the sex part immediately.

[LilahX]

Not weird at all, and not that uncommon. My partner's biggest turn on is watching me with someone else. He knows there is no emotion involved when I'm with someone else and no threat to our relationship. He also likes it if I go and meet a guy for sex, then come back and tell him about it. We are also swingers so it's not just me who's getting 'extra'. A lot of discussion is needed before you head down this path so you are both (to be cliche) 'on the same page' and set boundaries. It an be exciting and really add something to your relationship.

[Daveessex]

I have a fetish I love women wearing washing up gloves and all rubber gloves. i get so turned on. I have fetish for women in knee to thigh high heel boots. And sex I love to have it alot but