[Windsofpassion13]

Hey. I am new to this so give me a break. I have been to my Doc. for this and she says everything looks normal. ITS NOT. I have no desire to have sex. I have never really been raped or molested. When me and my fiance have sex, it seems like someone is pouring alcohol on a deep open wound. My insides feel like they are on fire literally in flames. I had a child on 8-27-06 and its been ever since then. I had skid marks but no ripping really. It will last for up to 30 minutes after and sometimes i even have to take a bath to make it stop hurting. He cant do ANY foreplay because it hurts soo bad. ONLY before and after sex. I can pee and wipe and it doesnt hurt. Its getting to the point i dont want him to touch me at all in bed. Please HELP. Its ruining our relationship. What do i do now...

PS; I am also on depo since 3 months after her birth.

[Windsofpassion13]

Forgot to put in thread

I have used extra lube different types of condemns. NO condemn. Different soaps detergent. I have tried just about everything. Is there a med. or should i stop having sex? (How do i do that with a man like mine) We only are having sex about 3 x a month as it is.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Hi,

Sorry i can't answer you, that's horrible.

Just thought though you may want to post this also on Gynocology incase someone else has experienced the same, they may not look in this section...

Other than that, i would be seeking another Doctor's opinion as you can't live like that.

Best of wishes,

CW

[Little]

It's against the rules to repost the same topic twice.

[Windsofpassion13]

Reposting

I am new. In the prev. post she said to post it at the other place. which one should i keep it at?

[CHANDLERS WISH]

It's against the rules to repost the same topic twice.

Sorry Little, i went back and read that, my apology...

[Little]

I've already deleted the other one; it's not a problem
I wish I could help you with your problem, but I don't really know. I'm sure you're already trying the "baby steps" theory.
Just don't give up.

[Dollface2008]

I would have to say use alot of lube? That seems awful! Try contacting specilists who know alot about after birth sex and women annatomy and all that. thats the only thing I can think of. Hope things get better that seems horrible!

[hello_pitty]

It's against the rules to repost the same topic twice.

Can't you move this one? I mean, you're a moderator and it is possible. I am a mod on another board, and I have done it before lots.

[free spirit]

I just wanted to add that I didn't realize that paper was so old. But it's a place to start learning.