[Happy1]

I had phone sex for the first time last night...I really dont know what to say or how it works. Am I supposed to act like he is there or imagine it is him, say that he feels good doing what I am actually doing or just talk about how good it would feel if he was doing it instead of me?

He wasnt too shy about talking but I really didnt know what to say. I liked it, it was nice but he did have to get off the phone right after so I was left a little confused.

We have known eachother for a couple years and have been very close to sex but it has never happened. We are very open and talking hasnt ever been an issue. We do love eachother but we both have alot of things to work thru right now so this was the next best thing for now.

Any experienced guys or girls wanna help out?

[CHANDLERS WISH]

I had phone sex for the first time last night...I really dont know what to say or how it works. Am I supposed to act like he is there or imagine it is him, say that he feels good doing what I am actually doing or just talk about how good it would feel if he was doing it instead of me?

He wasnt too shy about talking but I really didnt know what to say. I liked it, it was nice but he did have to get off the phone right after so I was left a little confused.

We have known eachother for a couple years and have been very close to sex but it has never happened. We are very open and talking hasnt ever been an issue. We do love eachother but we both have alot of things to work thru right now so this was the next best thing for now.

Any experienced guys or girls wanna help out?

Yeah well mine got paid out for doing that ( having to hang up write after), lol.

Without the boring details of how i know.....

Try this, as it worked for me in the seduction line and carried on from there.

Write a fantasy, where you and him are in it. The man should do all the work you know That should be your only job....

Send it to him via email and ask him to read it and then call you, repeating it with his own flair of course. It's the ideas that you put in that fantasy that he will remember.

I believe that with phone sex, it's all about your reaction to what he says, that he can "hear", your tension, breathing excalating, slowing, and well you can guess the rest...

Ask him as it appears that he didn't as you don't know, to speak, ie) i bet you haven't been licked for a long time, talk to me, how are you feeling. If your heated, (smile), your words may come out jumbled, lol but that's all good to...

That should do the trick....

CW

[CHANDLERS WISH]

PS:

Once you get used to it, it will be your turn!!!!!

Sorry guys, but you have to ease us into these things to gain results..

CW

[Richard S]

It's more about what he says to you. It's his job to make you surrender through the power of his words and his voice. It sounds like you're doing all the right things.

Like CW said, you can suggest things to him based on what's in your "secret garden" (i.e., your fantasy life). You could also tell him stories about something some guy did for you in the past that was particularly erotic.

Also, let him know it's not OK to skip out on the afterglowing...

[Happy1]

I did tell him the next day that I wasn't particularly pleased with the way the conversation ended. He apologized.It was just like you both said, he would say something and I would react to what he said with the occasional broken half sentence.Thanks for the pointers. I will def keep them in mind the next time the mood strikes! Its nice to know I am doing something right

[Uneeklyme]

Yeah well mine got paid out for doing that ( having to hang up write after), lol.

Without the boring details of how i know.....

Try this, as it worked for me in the seduction line and carried on from there.

Write a fantasy, where you and him are in it. The man should do all the work you know That should be your only job....

Send it to him via email and ask him to read it and then call you, repeating it with his own flair of course. It's the ideas that you put in that fantasy that he will remember.

I believe that with phone sex, it's all about your reaction to what he says, that he can "hear", your tension, breathing excalating, slowing, and well you can guess the rest...

Ask him as it appears that he didn't as you don't know, to speak, ie) i bet you haven't been licked for a long time, talk to me, how are you feeling. If your heated, (smile), your words may come out jumbled, lol but that's all good to...

That should do the trick....

CW

I like this idea. I am not really a fan of phone sex per se but the idea of finding out what is in his thoughts in accordance to what your thinking could be fun and enlightening. Its also fun to send and receive naughty emails and texts. It opens doors. Sometimes it's not as easy to say things as it is to write them but once the idea is out there the discussion could get uh...heated. Heh Might give this a try just to see what may cum up.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

I like this idea. I am not really a fan of phone sex per se but the idea of finding out what is in his thoughts in accordance to what your thinking could be fun and enlightening. Its also fun to send and receive naughty emails and texts. It opens doors. Sometimes it's not as easy to say things as it is to write them but once the idea is out there the discussion could get uh...heated. Heh Might give this a try just to see what may cum up.

Well, mmmm, when you don't have a choice as you live worlds apart, for now, then trust me, it's not the same thing but gee, i've had better sex with myself with a man at the end of the phone, than in real life, lol.....

He tells the story real well mind you, was married 17 years and away a bit, apart from ex-wife, i'm the second, so i'm priviledged... Not sure if i could do it either, if the guy lived here But, hearing his tone get deeper, and desire at the other end, mmm... priceless....

Visualisation:- Visualising the exact way in which we are doing, is well, again priceless... Put it this way, i know his body and he knows mine, pretty well for when we finally get together this month..... after such a lonnnnnngggg time....

It's worth the go anyway imagine the shock of your husband when you send him the fantasy? Problem is he will not want to call you on it, so to speak..... lol... Well maybe have him go into the lounge-room start it all of, and then come and finish it...

Have fun.

CW

[Mpierz]

Texting Sex

I find Texting Sex is allot easier! And you don't have to be embaressed because you are not on the phone with them.

[tristis]

I had phone sex for the first time last night...I really dont know what to say or how it works. Am I supposed to act like he is there or imagine it is him, say that he feels good doing what I am actually doing or just talk about how good it would feel if he was doing it instead of me?

He wasnt too shy about talking but I really didnt know what to say. I liked it, it was nice but he did have to get off the phone right after so I was left a little confused.

We have known eachother for a couple years and have been very close to sex but it has never happened. We are very open and talking hasnt ever been an issue. We do love eachother but we both have alot of things to work thru right now so this was the next best thing for now.

Any experienced guys or girls wanna help out?

This is somethin' I've just recently gotten into with my bf - like he's on vacation so I had phone sex earlier today - very funnnn and niiiiice and sexxxxy but then his mom walked in on him. He had lotion all over his hand - she thought it was c*m she's like "Oh sorry sorry - What's that white stuff all over your hands?!?!" Yeah. Ehum. That was kinda awkward for both of us - of course mainly for him but I felt awkward FOR him.

But yeah before that happend.
I knew that I couldn't like get all majorly into it [i.e. moaning, screaming, etc. ] cuz my parents were home today - but this time he did. We'd kinda had mini phone sex before lol like we'd just kinda touch ourselves a little while saying like we wanted each other and stuff but it was a few minutes but this was like, and hour or longer? He'd always been the one like telling me things he would do to me while listenin to me moans heh but this time I was the one doin' all the talking :P Basically lotsa tellin' him what I wanted, what I wanted to do to him like

[tristis]

This is somethin' I've just recently gotten into with my bf - like he's on vacation so I had phone sex earlier today - very funnnn and niiiiice and sexxxxy but then his mom walked in on him. He had lotion all over his hand - she thought it was c*m she's like "Oh sorry sorry - What's that white stuff all over your hands?!?!" Yeah. Ehum. That was kinda awkward for both of us - of course mainly for him but I felt awkward FOR him.

But yeah before that happend.
I knew that I couldn't like get all majorly into it [i.e. moaning, screaming, etc. ] cuz my parents were home today - but this time he did. We'd kinda had mini phone sex before lol like we'd just kinda touch ourselves a little while saying like we wanted each other and stuff but it was a few minutes but this was like, and hour or longer? He'd always been the one like telling me things he would do to me while listenin to me moans heh but this time I was the one doin' all the talking :P Basically lotsa tellin' him what I wanted, what I wanted to do to him like

Not supposed to send right then.
Anyway. Yeah it was pretty interesting - I wasn't even touching myself like I said I didn't want things to get too crazy with my parents home. So after a bit of him rubbing himself and me saying some dirtay things he told me he was laying down [so I pictured him on top of me] and he started thrusting into his fist, and his voice just changed and his breathing got all gaspy and rugged and he'd be like "ahhhh *my name*.." and saying other dirty things - drove me wild I gasped/whimpered [and other signs of arousal heh] without even laying a finger on my special place - turned me onnnn! It seriously sounds like you're having sex. When ya get into it hehe.

So yeah basically say whatever you wanna/what you feel :] what you want him to do to you, what you wanna do to him, bodily conditions [wink wink], comments bout his cerrrrtain parts, fantasies, etccccc.