[Jessa1998]

If she keeps working at it, she will eventually find a method that works on many if not most if she takes away lessons from each time. Everybody has to have had a first time. Did she like it when she finally got you there? For myself, watching her have an orgasm is my greatest reward.

She loved it. And yeah there's definitely gonna be a 2nd time and I bet she will be better. I'll let you know! Haha. She also loved receiving.... She had it before but she said this was like something completely different. It was the first time a girl did it to her, so that's explains it!

[jns]

She loved it. And yeah there's definitely gonna be a 2nd time and I bet she will be better. I'll let you know! Haha. She also loved receiving.... She had it before but she said this was like something completely different. It was the first time a girl did it to her, so that's explains it!

That's great! There is definitely a learning curve. Sometimes what you did last time doesn't work. Then you have to go to plan b or plan c or plan d. You may have to do more work to get her to a fully sexually excited state.

[WaveRider]

WaveRider - oral doesn't not do it for me. It gets me turned on but I have yet to go with that alone.

I guess women can be different. However, I've yet to be with one who couldn't cum from tongue work. BTW, oral sex involves more than tongue work. Finger massaging of a clit then insertion to massage the inner ridges of her vajayjay along with gently sucking her labia into my mouth until she demands to cum. Then I'll lick and suck her clit into my mouth while my tongue massages her clit to massive orgasm. Sometimes I'll insert a well lubricated finger inside of her butt, while another finger massages her vajayjay ridges along with tongue work on her clit. My g/f has such explosive orgasms from this technique that she literally has to catch her breath.

[amy40]

I've yet to be with one who couldn't cum from tongue work.

you haven't met everyone
women are all different

[Jessa1998]

I guess women can be different. However, I've yet to be with one who couldn't cum from tongue work. BTW, oral sex involves more than tongue work. Finger massaging of a clit then insertion to massage the inner ridges of her vajayjay along with gently sucking her labia into my mouth until she demands to cum. Then I'll lick and suck her clit into my mouth while my tongue massages her clit to massive orgasm. Sometimes I'll insert a well lubricated finger inside of her butt, while another finger massages her vajayjay ridges along with tongue work on her clit. My g/f has such explosive orgasms from this technique that she literally has to catch her breath.

WOW. That is all.

[WaveRider]

Hi Jessa1998,

If I'm with a woman whom I really care for, I can spend all night between her legs. I'm long past done with a quick piece of *****.

Some years ago, I took a coworker to a beach resort for a long weekend. She was about twenty years younger than I was. I have no clue of how many times she came from my tongue expertise. She literally didn't want me to stop.

My g/f usually has at least six oral sex orgasms a night. If we're in bed all night, there's no limit to the number of orgasms she'll have. She's had a lot of sex partners, but none knew how to make her cum from oral sex. If I hadn't been taught when I was young, I might be one of the dudes that frustrate women.

BTW, the myth that shaved makes it easier for a dude to tongue work a woman is BS. I've done it full bush, groomed bush, and complete Brazilian. If women's pubic hair were harmful, I'd of died before I graduated from high school. Besides I love the feel of a woman's silky pubic hair caressing my face while my face is buried in her bush.

A common complaint of women is men lacking oral skills.

[tomcrucker]

I think you should be more adventurous. Have you tried stimulating her before sex? How about using some sex toys to get it started?

[Jessa1998]

Hi Jessa1998,

My g/f usually has at least six oral sex orgasms a night. If we're in bed all night, there's no limit to the number of orgasms she'll have.

A common complaint of women is men lacking oral skills.

I don't even know what that means... SIX??? I don't think I've ever been with someone anywhere near that good and I didn't even know it was possible...

[jns]

I don't even know what that means... SIX??? I don't think I've ever been with someone anywhere near that good and I didn't even know it was possible...

Jessa, please understand every woman is different. Some cannot orgasm and it is still debated if they could even under ideal conditions. Some orgasm, but it takes a lot of work. Some orgasm fairly easily but are good with one. Some can get several with a lot of work. Some can have multiple orgasms fairly easily. It sounds like you have not been with someone who has been willing to make it all about you for a session. That is probably related to doing hookups instead of being in a longer term relationship (including some friends with benefits relationships.) With a hookup, everybody is trying to get theirs along with giving the other person (people) theirs. In longer term relationships, there is enough time to have some sessions mostly or all about one person or about the other person. You have to get the right person for a longer term relationship because some people will not be willing to do the extra work or have a session that is all about the other person.

[WaveRider]

Hi Jessa,

I'm not BS'ing. She is almost always good for six orgasms. About a week ago, she had to have had at least eight. It had been about a week since we had sex, & she was exceptionally horny. She loves tongue music on her clit along with digital harmony, as in fingers in the right areas. When she's done cumming, she'll say, "Now it's time for you to cum." After I cum, she's good for more tongue music.

BTW, she has a physician diagnosed hormonal imbalance that has caused her to be extremely horny. When she was younger and a nympho, she thought her high sex drive was caused by her love of sex. She told me that when she was in college, she'd walk around campus wet. She told me she could have had sex every day if she could've. I'm sure she wore her boyfriends out.