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  • InLoveWithMyHusband
    Member
    • May 2008
    • 12

    A strange question about sex

    I have a strange question to ask.
    At the end of having sex and my husband releases all of his sperm into me, it seems to just seep out of me. I hate it leaking so much on the bed because I have to sleep on it so I usually spend 5-10 minutes inthe bathroom to let as much of it leak out as I can before going to bed (or before going onto normal daily activities, depends on what time of day we have sex).
    My question is if any of you deal with this and what you do about it?
  • plainjane5
    Member
    • May 2008
    • 17

    Oh I absolutely share your problem and it can be such a hassle! Don’t be embarrassed by it though, my partner and I have made an ongoing joke about it. We blame each of who’s “fluids” it is, lol, well we think it’s funny. It does lighten up the mood a bit if you’re shy about it. It’s completely normal!

    Well what we recently started doing is using a towel. I bought a towel (my great idea, lol) specifically for this use. Whenever we’re “itchin” we just grab the towel and folded it right underneath us (or cover the soon to be affected area, lol).

    For random lunch meet ups and such I carry wipes and panty liners. They can be a girl’s best friend in these cases!

    It may seem like a lot to do, but if the discomfort is that great then the measures should be worth it.

    Have fun!

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    • plainjane5
      Member
      • May 2008
      • 17

      Oh sorry I think I may have missed some aspects of the thread...

      I usually take a shower right afterwards that helps a lot. And if I still have the leaking feeling I'll throw on some period panties (my name for my old, worn out, big granny panties that I like to wear on my period, lol) and panty liners and be on my way whether to sleep or work or wherever.

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      • SinisterUrge
        Veteran Member
        • Feb 2008
        • 370

        Originally posted by InLoveWithMyHusband
        My question is if any of you deal with this and what you do about it?
        Half the time my wife sits on the toilet until its mostly gone, the other half she has me 'clean her up' orally.

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        • FionaDiaz
          Senior Member
          • May 2008
          • 130

          I usually take a shower afterwards if it's in the morning.... at night I just sleep in it.... it doesn't bother me at all.

          But showering helps if you really can't stand it!

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          • Uneeklyme
            Veteran Member
            • Apr 2008
            • 257

            Originally posted by FionaDiaz
            I usually take a shower afterwards if it's in the morning.... at night I just sleep in it.... it doesn't bother me at all.

            But showering helps if you really can't stand it!
            We keep a towel handy to wipe up with if its bedtime. That way we get to cuddle post coital without interuption. Just throw it down between you and the sheets.

            My partner and I also joke about the wet spot.... hey, did I do that or was that you. I win, you get to sleep in the wet spot type of thing.

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            • FionaDiaz
              Senior Member
              • May 2008
              • 130

              Originally posted by Uneeklyme
              We keep a towel handy to wipe up with if its bedtime. That way we get to cuddle post coital without interuption. Just throw it down between you and the sheets.

              My partner and I also joke about the wet spot.... hey, did I do that or was that you. I win, you get to sleep in the wet spot type of thing.
              For the quick wipe up, we usually use his boxers

              And as for the wet spot, I always try to have sex on his side of the bed so that he can get the wet spot... but he always moved me right before he came... so I just gave up!

              It doesn't really bother me, he finds it pretty horrible though!

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              • Uneeklyme
                Veteran Member
                • Apr 2008
                • 257

                Originally posted by FionaDiaz
                For the quick wipe up, we usually use his boxers
                Heh. hear ya there. Once he took the pillow case off the pillow and tried to help me with that. Its just become automatic to stock the lil towel pile in the headboard now.

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                • Brit
                  Member
                  • May 2008
                  • 13

                  Heehee, this thread made me laugh! Sometimes we don't do it cos I can't be bothered to have to get up afterwards to clean myself up! If I don't I get a yeast infection guarenteed! I race to the toilet, literally, we do a count 1,2,3 then to the loo! I push down really hard with my pelvic floor and push it all out, baby wipe and done! It's a standing joke with my husband and I now! I think sometimes condoms would be easier....at least then he'd have to clean up! Heehee!

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                  • anonymouswhitefemale
                    Veteran Member
                    • Sep 2007
                    • 1343

                    Maybe less leakage with anal ?

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