[freshkimber88]

So I'm a 17 year old male and I have a couple questions to ask you ladies. The other day me and a friend stopped by at his girlfriends house so they could "visit". While I was there they introduced me to a girl sitting in the living room. I relaxed on the couch next to her and we talked for a while until she put a pillow on top of her lap, she then bumped her leg up against mine and I finally took the hint . One thing led to another and we proceeded up stairs into a bedroom where she gave me oral, and I returned the favor after that we had intercourse.

It was my first time eating a girl out and it was one of the most disgusting things I've ever done, but I still loved it. I would like to know if there is something special your husband or boyfriend does to make the experience better for you? Maybe a special move he makes or something. I'm willing to try anything as long as it makes it better for the women I'm with.

After everything I was kind of shocked to hear her talking on the phone to her boyfriend for the rest of the night. Kind of made me feel like an *******, I thought we really connected and it was the best sex I've ever had but I guess I'm not good enough to go out with. I actually have never even kissed a girl yet! But somehow I manage to have sex.

Another thing is it weird that i'm 17 and never have had a girlfriend. I leave for boot in 3 months and was hoping to find a girl for the time I have left but I guess that won't happen.

[Little]

Don't torture a brand-new girlfriend with boot camp. Seriously. They're going to tell you she's cheating on you and that you shouldn't have a girlfriend anyways.
If you're going into the military, you're going to see some of the most dysfunctional relationships all at once. You'll see your friends cheated on, married after mere weeks of knowing a girl, and divorced months later.
Sounds like this girl is messed up in the head; forget her and concentrate on your DEP program.

[anonymouswhitefemale]

Hahah, most disgusting thing eh? Was she really unclean with pubic hairs 5 inches long?

Err, to address your questions - no it's not that weird that you've never had a girlfriend, things just happen differently for different people. The first actual relationship I had was when I was 21.... Things'll work out for you.

As for finding a girl before you go to boot camp; that's potentially not a good idea even if it did happen. It'd suck for both of you, and getting into a relationship so you have something to think about when you're away isn't a good reason to get into a relationship.

Also, sounds like that girl's a bit of a *****... Either that or an elightened free individual - who should've made sure that you felt the same way about it first.

[FionaDiaz]

My entire family is military, and we will all agree with everyone who has already said it: Don't get into a relationship right before going to boot! NEVER a good idea!

[mosach]

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Who knows in these three months you may meet the best girl you've ever met and have the best sex you've ever had, "fall in love" and living every minute of those three months knowing that you will have to leave her and it gets even worse when you go away and try to focus on what you do out there.

**** happens....you know what I'm sayin, and it'll mess you up real bad.

I suggest you focus on what's ahead of you; just make sure you come back in one peice so that you can come back to a clean life and live-on without anything negative playin around in your head.

Unanimously said here by all.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Who knows in these three months you may meet the best girl you've ever met and have the best sex you've ever had, "fall in love" and living every minute of those three months knowing that you will have to leave her and it gets even worse when you go away and try to focus on what you do out there.

**** happens....you know what I'm sayin, and it'll mess you up real bad.

I suggest you focus on what's ahead of you; just make sure you come back in one peice so that you can come back to a clean life and live-on without anything negative playin around in your head.

Unanimously said here by all.

Very well said.

CW

[mosach]

Hey, Thanks CW.

[SinisterUrge]

One thing led to another and we proceeded up stairs into a bedroom where she gave me oral, and I returned the favor after that we had intercourse.

Awesome.

It was my first time eating a girl out and it was one of the most disgusting things I've ever done, but I still loved it.

Ha! Just wait till you earn your Red Wings. Or meet that special lady who enjoys golden or brown showers.

Maybe a special move he makes or something. I'm willing to try anything as long as it makes it better for the women I'm with.

Exceptional sexual aptitude is something people learn. My best advice is to get the Nina Hartley (Porn star from before your time) how-to DVDs. That should give you the basics, but what you'll really need is somebody to learn and grow your abilities with (much like a book on Kung-Fu isn't going to teach you as well as a real class with qualified teachers).

After everything I was kind of shocked to hear her talking on the phone to her boyfriend for the rest of the night. Kind of made me feel like an *******

17 and already being treated like a piece of meat. Oh how i wish I was young again

I thought we really connected and it was the best sex I've ever had but I guess I'm not good enough to go out with.

Well technically it was your first time. So it was also the worst sex you've ever had.

Anyway, someday you'll learn the world is filled with people that are worth sleeping with that you would never want to date.