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  • jns
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    • Mar 2010
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    Originally posted by patriceb
    he did have trouble staying hard. could that have been a factor as well?
    Absolutely! When a guy has trouble staying hard, it becomes problematic for penetration, especially if the lady is fairly tight. As he fails at penetration, he starts to doubt which causes him to lose his erection even faster. The work around is to change focus by going back to foreplay with no expectations. Sometimes something such as watching porn together will get him ready. A lot of situations could cause him to lose an erection such as tiredness, stress, medication, being too drunk, etc.
    I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
    ...
    Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?

    From a speech by Patrick Henry on March 23, 1775 at St. John's Church, Richmond, Virginia

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