[Little]

Divorce papers for the win.
At this point, you might be a very lucky woman whose relationship is not the norm. Maybe he really loves you; maybe he wasn't lying. Are those the thoughts running through your head? If I were you, they would be flying fast through my romantic mind.
But tell him if he really wants you to get that divorce quick like a bunny and have his lawyer send you the final papers.
Only then can you be happy.

[mosach]

............

Measure it all up.

Every human being follows a pattern in life; the understanding of which will give you a better perspective about what he may, and/or may not do in his life ahead. Some stuff may

Step # 1: Understand him (his pattern) by analyzing whatever (that concerns you) he's being doing in the past and for the things you don;t know, you can always ask him/common-friends the right questions.

You may.

(a) Get to know about past relationships, and how they ended. (which will be an clear indiactor of things to come.)

(b) His habits (door way to his sub & un-conscious mind), is he a person who is in control of himself or someone who does whatever comes to his mind. (I really wanted to s.c.r.e.w my best friend's mom, but I controlled the urge to do so, and I am not joking). He may / may not, do stuff in the time ahead of him.

(c) It will also help if you have a good understanding of how much he can be changed (how often he deviated from his pattern/way of functioning). You could customize your man as suited to your requirements.

Do things like that, and don't forget to find out exactly WHY he left his wife (and whether he means it).

Was it because he loves you soo much / his wife hates him / He was in deep **** that day / An Impulse !!!...you know the drill.


Once you understand his pattern/way of functioning

Step # 2:Ask yourself - How Old is he?
(That's how much he time he has ahead of him to be him-self and whether he can change/be changed. You know what I mean)

It is simply the understanding/learning phase, and then the forecasting phase. Sum it all up and check whether all the numbers add up to be = good times ahead of you.

I know it sounds boring but a few interesting phone calls and little spicy gossip and maybe some thrilling espionage and a little bit of working that guitar (pulling strings), will make it all very interesting.

I don't want to sound like a BUM, but just that I know the feeling because I've seen **** happen once in my life, and decided that it should never happen again..ever....

DO IT....you must....

Your mind always works a few steps over your heart.....
You always get what you want........
There is no such thing as failiure......
There is either Victory, or, Death.....
They either surrender, or, die...................
You don't have to hold something for it to be yours, if you've set your sights on it, YOU OWN IT.....
If you don't get it, Nobody gets it.....
You are the dominant species on this earth....
You were meant, TO RULE......
So get your *$$ out there and do just that.....



Milfred23, sorry for being so Nerdy.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

mosach
DO IT....you must....

Your mind always works a few steps over your heart.....
You always get what you want........
There is no such thing as failiure......
There is either Victory, or, Death.....
They either surrender, or, die...................
You don't have to hold something for it to be yours, if you've set your sights on it, YOU OWN IT.....
If you don't get it, Nobody gets it.....
You are the dominant species on this earth....
You were meant, TO RULE......
So get your *$$ out there and do just that.....

WHAT a goal setter!!!!! Seeing as my staff had a heart to heart today with me, pertaining to "you must rule", "we are a team", "we need you back", well feeling a bit low lately, usually very goal driven....

That actually helped me, lol....

Thanks

CW

[mosach]

Thanks CW.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Actually i am a bit worried, that that is twice that i have agreed with you, not good...

Stop thinking so deep ok, otherwise your like me and i'll have to continue to agree but not divulge all of my sex secrets that you post that i don't reply to all the time, because, i don't have to.

Of the subject sorry.... lol.

CW

[mosach]

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[miffed23]

Measure it all up.

Every human being follows a pattern in life; the understanding of which will give you a better perspective about what he may, and/or may not do in his life ahead. Some stuff may

Step # 1: Understand him (his pattern) by analyzing whatever (that concerns you) he's being doing in the past and for the things you don;t know, you can always ask him/common-friends the right questions.

You may.

(a) Get to know about past relationships, and how they ended. (which will be an clear indiactor of things to come.)

(b) His habits (door way to his sub & un-conscious mind), is he a person who is in control of himself or someone who does whatever comes to his mind. (I really wanted to s.c.r.e.w my best friend's mom, but I controlled the urge to do so, and I am not joking). He may / may not, do stuff in the time ahead of him.

(c) It will also help if you have a good understanding of how much he can be changed (how often he deviated from his pattern/way of functioning). You could customize your man as suited to your requirements.

Do things like that, and don't forget to find out exactly WHY he left his wife (and whether he means it).

Was it because he loves you soo much / his wife hates him / He was in deep **** that day / An Impulse !!!...you know the drill.


Once you understand his pattern/way of functioning

Step # 2:Ask yourself - How Old is he?
(That's how much he time he has ahead of him to be him-self and whether he can change/be changed. You know what I mean)

It is simply the understanding/learning phase, and then the forecasting phase. Sum it all up and check whether all the numbers add up to be = good times ahead of you.

I know it sounds boring but a few interesting phone calls and little spicy gossip and maybe some thrilling espionage and a little bit of working that guitar (pulling strings), will make it all very interesting.

I don't want to sound like a BUM, but just that I know the feeling because I've seen **** happen once in my life, and decided that it should never happen again..ever....

DO IT....you must....

Your mind always works a few steps over your heart.....
You always get what you want........
There is no such thing as failiure......
There is either Victory, or, Death.....
They either surrender, or, die...................
You don't have to hold something for it to be yours, if you've set your sights on it, YOU OWN IT.....
If you don't get it, Nobody gets it.....
You are the dominant species on this earth....
You were meant, TO RULE......
So get your *$$ out there and do just that.....



Milfred23, sorry for being so Nerdy.

You frazzled my brain ...and im loving my new name Milfred...lol!

I cant work him out unfortunately...he is 'saying' he left her because he wants to be with me but was it all done on an impulse? See,there goes my mind working a couple of steps ahead of my heart...

Little - thank you for your reply, they are the thoughts that are now running through my mind...im in a romanic whirlwind, that i need to get out of so that i can make sensible decisions. The divorce papers are a work in progress, so i definitely wont be seeing him until he has them and then i guess ill be back on here for advice....lol!!

CW- head is surprisingly good today, i think i managed a bottle of wine whilst on the phone to him.

Im a little shocked, not in a bad way, that everyone hasnt said "do not go there" I must admit that is what i was expecting...

Thanks to all. MILFRED xxx

[CHANDLERS WISH]

You frazzled my brain ...and im loving my new name Milfred...lol!

I cant work him out unfortunately...he is 'saying' he left her because he wants to be with me but was it all done on an impulse? See,there goes my mind working a couple of steps ahead of my heart...

Little - thank you for your reply, they are the thoughts that are now running through my mind...im in a romanic whirlwind, that i need to get out of so that i can make sensible decisions. The divorce papers are a work in progress, so i definitely wont be seeing him until he has them and then i guess ill be back on here for advice....lol!!

CW- head is surprisingly good today, i think i managed a bottle of wine whilst on the phone to him.

Im a little shocked, not in a bad way, that everyone hasnt said "do not go there" I must admit that is what i was expecting...

Thanks to all. MILFRED xxx

Well Milfred, lol, i do like that as well...

I would have been gulping the glasses down, and i'm pretty sure you weren't sipping whilst listening...lol....

No necessity to say "don't go there" just " take your time" things can happen in life, they can also go backwards and hurt like hell, so taking your time hopefully will come out good for you.

We all live in hope... Good luck.

CW

[Little]

Oh, I would love to throw a fit for you and say "no, don't do it! Noooooo!" but ... I don't know this guy. Maybe he's genuine and like I said before, maybe you're really REALLY lucky.
But of course once you get those papers there's more to think about. He did LIE to you. He also lied to his wife and cheated on her.
It's up to YOU and YOUR judgment to see if this is going to work.