[WaveRider]

Baboy,

You are aware that we can't post links here, are you not?

Research it. Prior knowledge would help. If we know that babies pass through vaginas which then return to their normal sizes, they'd have to be extremely durable and strong muscles.

BTW, some 10 years ago, my then g/f now ex-g/f but we're still friends showed me a "Cosmo" article about package size. It indicated that women prefer thick love muscles inside of them. She has told me more than a few dozen times that she likes 'em thick and not too long, especially when she has given head to dudes with long love muscles. I've never asked her how many dudes she's done. It's none of my business. Were I to guess, she's above average in dudes done in her age category. The point of her experience is validity of her opinions. I have and will listen to her when she talks sex. She knows that she can talk candid sex with me because I will not judge her. I know all of her sexual fantasies because she trusts sharing that knowledge with me. She has directly and tacitly told me that one of her fantasies is to be worked by a huge packaged black stud. If she wishes, hopefully she'll be able to experience her black stud fantasy. If she were still my g/f, her experiencing that fantasy would cause a substantial problem in our relationship. I can't trust a cheater.

This is really a rhetorical, academic polemic. It's not definitive. I will never let an exception invalidate a rule. That's a logical fallacy as is extremism, which is all over your second paragraph of your last post to me.

We should approach this as Socratic debate, not adversarial.

Best of luck to you.

[Baboy]

Baboy,

You are aware that we can't post links here, are you not?

Research it. Prior knowledge would help. If we know that babies pass through vaginas which then return to their normal sizes, they'd have to be extremely durable and strong muscles.

BTW, some 10 years ago, my then g/f now ex-g/f but we're still friends showed me a "Cosmo" article about package size. .

Did I post a link or ask you to post one? Can you not disclose the source of your belief that the vagina is the strongest muscle in the human body without posting a link? As an aside, if the vagina is the strongest, where does that leave us poor vagina-less guys?

Yes, I did research it. I used a search engine with the search words "strongest human muscle". While there were variations, the most frequent answer I got online went something like this listing of the 5 strongest muscles:

• Heart. The heart, which consists of cardiac muscle, is said to be the hardest working muscle in the body. ...
• Masseter. ...
• Soleus. ...
• Gluteus Maximus. ...
• Uterus.

The vagina ranked in no listing I found. Some sources suggested that the pelvic muscles in the vaginal region are nothing to be trifled with.

As for Cosmo, I'll yield. I can imagine no higher authority on any topic than Cosmo. If you read it there, then it's an unarguable proposition. Thanks for setting me straight.

[WaveRider]

Baboy,

My ex-g/f was over a few nights ago. I asked her about preferred package size. She grabbed my laptop and search engined it. Sure enough, women do prefer girth. However, some respondents indicated that they'll settle for less that their preferred size if they're in relationships. Interestingly, women indicated that they want bigger when doing one-nighters.

Try search enigining, "Women preferred penis size," and see what pops up.

[Jim60]

From a mans point of view. Not getting into what counts as big or small, but my penis is shorter than it once was as following (probably) a trivial injury some scar tissue has formed.

When I measured it as a teenager as one does it was it was a whisker short of 7 inches and thickness looked in proportion though I never measured it. The head was bigger than average judging by what I have seen. Now its a little short of 6 inches and has a slight upward curve, whereas before it was perfectly straight. The end and base 1/3 are unchanged, the middle is a little narrowed where it was fatter before.

Does it matter? To me, yes. I liked the size it was aesthetically. I wasn't Like"I've got a big **** look at me" ever but I never had a moments worry that it was small. It was easy to slip in from pretty well any position and get nice long thrusts. Sometimes I have a sensation that it's not all the way in when really it is. I much preferred straight to curved, but it doesn't cause any problems. To my wife, not much it seems. She says she sometimes used to cum really quickly which happens less now, but as we are older now sex tends to last longer anyway. But it cuts both ways, sometimes she enjoyed the larger me, but she is petite and sometimes found it uncomfortable, especially doggie. Now I can bang away and will never hurt her. Though the curve doesnt really seem to suit doggie for me.

Positives - not many. When erect my foreskin can remain forward which gives a new sensation during oral - I like her to start with it forward then peel it back with her mouth after a minute or two. And she likes playing with it. To avoid the dreaded "not all in" feeling she needs to be well aroused and very wet so I give her oral a lot more which she likes. And like I said, its never uncomfortable for her any more, but that was only an issue because she is small, I dont remember anyone else mentioning it.

I'm probably not the only guy here with this, but I'm lucky. I had a bit to spare to start with. If you were already on the smaller side it would be worse. The curve is mild and causes no problems, many guys have a curve so severe it makes penetration uncomfortable or impossible. ED is common but my erections are fine.

So I definitely preferred being longer, straighter and fatter in the mid section and I'm sure my wife mostly did as well. I'd go back in a heartbeat if I could. But I guess if I'd always been like this we'd probably think nothing of it.

[WaveRider]

Hi Jim60,

I'm glad that your injury was resolved w/o issue.

I've had more than a few women tell me that long is not good when they give oral sex. My last g/f told me the first few times she gave me head to not grab the back of her head. Later she told me the story. One of her first boyfriends was long. When she gave him head, when he came he'd grab the back of her head and shove his package down her throat, which she said gagged her to the point of uncomfortable. They were both young (late teens early 20's). She said he couldn't help himself & she understood. They resolved it. She said the only benefit was his load went down her throat & she didn't have to taste it. She wasn't the only woman to tell me she didn't like the taste of it, but loved giving head.

You're right about age prolonging sex.

Everyone has preferences. I've never had a complaint. As long as a woman is happy, who cares?

I wish you the best.