[deep-evie]

I've never met a woman who carried a tape measure. But if I had of run across a woman who had busted out a tape measure, knowing me like I know me, I'd of laughed my butt off.

I think a lot of men didn't do well in math. From what I've been told, many men confuse 4 inches for 7 inches. But they assuredly didn't fool women. Women are pretty accurate at estimating size.

Haha thats fair, i know what my hand looks like around a 6" penis (hand around bottom of shaft with a bit of shaft and a head sticking out) so when i grab one and i can get 2 hands on his shaft i know hes around 7.5-8. many girls just eyeball it though and are way off haha.

But no penis size envy here, just a preference which is what this post was about I respect those who don't do anal, your preferences, i personally love it.

[Maisie Dayz]

once asked husband if he wanted to and he said NO emphatically
so I was relieved as am kinda a germaphobe and I'd probably want him to take 30 showers before returning

Lol ..... i'd never offer and like you the thought of where it's been would keep me away from it for a long while

[Maisie Dayz]

Good Morning, Maisie,

I agree. I've once asked my g/f why she did anal sex for her boyfriends. She did it for them. One of her former boyfriends wanted anal sex a lot. She let him do it when he wanted it. I'm assuming that that meant that her anal canal was voided. She said the "naughty" aspect of engaging in taboo sex turned her on, but the act of anal sex did nothing physically stimulating to her.

Until I met my g/f, I had never thought of anal sex. It had never entered my mind. She used to want to take away my anal sex virginity. She hasn't mentioned it in a while. Hopefully she's gotten the knowledge that it ain't something I'd want to do.

Why does a man want to do it anyway? I can't comprehend the thought process.
Most female porn stars don't partake and those that do, get paid quite well for doing so because it's rare.

[deep-evie]

It isn't really a black and white thing. Some girls hate anal. Some like yourself will never do it and don't see the point. Other like me love it and see every point. Some mildly enjoy it on occasion. For a guy I think it'd the dirty taboo feeling. Plus if you have ever put a finger in yours as well as your vaginally they feel totally different. The *** is tighter at the entrance and loose inside providing as alternating tightness feeling. Some guys must love that. It's more than because of porn anal "buggery" has been going on since the Egyptian cleopatra times.

How I see it. If you like it cool. If you don't cool. Never knock the other viewpoint unless you have tried it. And apart from that it's personal opinion. I understand girls who love doing it. I also understand why some girls won't or are hesitant.

thats my viewpoint on anal anyway from a neutral mindset.

[WaveRider]

Good Morning, deep-evie,

I've been told that some women love anal. Might be. I don't know.

My g/f is an anal sexpert; well, she is according to her. The short story: she did it for boyfriends whom she really liked. She wouldn't allow any dude to do her butt.

[WaveRider]

Good Morning, Maisie,

I can only guess why men are in to anal sex. I think it might have something to do with the illusion of control. I don't want to control a woman. I want her to have sex with me because she wants to have sex with me.

My g/f told me that a lot of lubricant is required for anal sex. It sounded messy. Lubricant mixed with fecal matter would be the complete opposite of turning me on. She has had painful experiences during anal sex.

I don't have many phobias (a banshee armed with a machete would scare me). I won't take unnecessary risks with my health. I won't ruin a wondrous sexual encounter by introducing fecal matter in to it.

Finally, I think anal sex is selfish. My g/f told me she's done it for the pleasure of boyfriends. She got nothing sexual outta it. Sex should be mutually euphoric.

One more finally: fecal matter that finds its way into a woman's vagina can cause a very serious infection. How could anal sex be worth that risk?

[Lithium]

Finally, I think anal sex is selfish. My g/f told me she's done it for the pleasure of boyfriends. She got nothing sexual outta it. Sex should be mutually euphoric.

Anal sex can be very pleasurable for a woman. If she doesn't like it its only her personal taste. Some people like coffee, some don't.

[deep-evie]

As lith said. Preference. And it's only selfish if the girl doesn't like it. I get pleasure from it. Legit have had an orgasm through only anal penetration before. Not all girls can and if they can't it's down to if they enjoy the act or not. Not everything in th bedroom is done for my pleasure I suck them too but if a girl is pleasure focused and gets none from anal then 100% she should not do it

[Maisie Dayz]

Good Morning, Maisie,

I can only guess why men are in to anal sex. I think it might have something to do with the illusion of control. I don't want to control a woman. I want her to have sex with me because she wants to have sex with me.

My g/f told me that a lot of lubricant is required for anal sex. It sounded messy. Lubricant mixed with fecal matter would be the complete opposite of turning me on. She has had painful experiences during anal sex.

I don't have many phobias (a banshee armed with a machete would scare me). I won't take unnecessary risks with my health. I won't ruin a wondrous sexual encounter by introducing fecal matter in to it.

Finally, I think anal sex is selfish. My g/f told me she's done it for the pleasure of boyfriends. She got nothing sexual outta it. Sex should be mutually euphoric.

One more finally: fecal matter that finds its way into a woman's vagina can cause a very serious infection. How could anal sex be worth that risk?

Hi WR,
That's why a condom is required for double dipping.... use it for anal and remove for vaginal to prevent contamination.
There's also a risk of tearing the thin membrane that divides the vagina from the anal passage. If this occurred, you could get fecal matter coming out through the vagina.

[Maisie Dayz]

Not everything in th bedroom is done for my pleasure I suck them too

True but then oral on a female is singular pleasure too (albeit that the guy may enjoy doing it).