My husband and I have always agreed to monogamy as the formula for the happiest life. We are sexually adventurous, but exclusively with each other. After 15 years of marriage and three kids later, we've hinted to each other about other fantasies with the hint that one day we might explore. I'm wondering if anyone else has traveled that path and how it worked out. I'm not willing to do anything that jeopardizes our marriage, but I think we are both a little bored and looking for some way to spice things up. I'm bisexual, though I've only ever been with one woman - the only other partner I've ever had besides my husband. But that's not where our fantasies are going. It has more to do with play rather than full blown sex with others. Input from anyone else who has traveled a similar path are welcomed.
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I guess it comes down to the strength of your relationship.
Personally I couldn't contemplate bringing others in, it doesn't appeal in any way, shape or form.
Though there may be positives (though none spring to mind), it could lead to jealousy, disgruntlement etc, etc (the negatives are endless) & fracture what was a perfect union.
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cathygirl
it's difficult to know what you are thinking about, however, as your first post is vague
"play" could mean anythingComment
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