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  • amy40
    Veteran Member
    • Nov 2016
    • 2732

    do you ever think about

    people you used to date and/or be married to?
  • amy40
    Veteran Member
    • Nov 2016
    • 2732

    I do admit to one guy showing up in my dreams after being married

    I'd dream I was roller skating again and he'd be there too and we'd skate together

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    • atskitty2
      Assistant Admin
      • Aug 2013
      • 4467

      I do occasionally.
      I was with my ex husband for so long, I guess it's natural he still comes to mind at times. After the divorce, moving on was hard for various reasons, and he still occasionally contacts me claiming that he has some important matters to discuss.

      I'm reminded of some of the men I've dated at times. Some I'm still friends with or have on social media. Others just come to mind randomly. I'm the same way with old friends and acquaintances. Often wonder what happened to them.

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      • amy40
        Veteran Member
        • Nov 2016
        • 2732

        don't know why I posted this under sex as I've never had sex dreams about anyone other than husband

        but imagine people probably do have sex dreams about former girlfriends/boyfriends/husbands/wives

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        • jns
          Assistant Admin
          • Mar 2010
          • 8398

          I believe I had a dream one time about an ex gf. I think about what could have been once in a long time.
          I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
          ...
          Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?

          From a speech by Patrick Henry on March 23, 1775 at St. John's Church, Richmond, Virginia

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          • muffin70
            Veteran Member
            • Aug 2013
            • 384

            duplicate post sorry!

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            • muffin70
              Veteran Member
              • Aug 2013
              • 384

              Well when I was younger I used to think about my ex GF after we split up – because I had no-one else to compare her to.
              I do admit to occasionally thinking about a lady that used to work in the same company as me – even though I am happily married for 15 years, there was something about her that I liked and I’ve had the odd sexual dream about her…. I do feel guilty about it, but it is only a dream…

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