[CHANDLERS WISH]

I think that is what im going to do, if i set her free, if she loves me like she says she does, she'll come back..if not, i'll just see what i avoided in the future. I just dont want to make the wrong decision and lose her forever, then i will regret for the rest of my life, yeah i might be able to move on, but all in all..i wouldn't be able to forgive myself for my actions.

Yes that saying is very true. But, start slowly, by seeing her less and see what happens, when you see her be happy of course, i think anyway.. Perhaps this way you're not "setting her free and wondering" rather "checking" so you can make a decision, yours, not hers....

And then you'll know perhaps which path to take from there....

Best of luck..

CW

[The Orbess]

Set up "guy's nite out". Help her set up a "girls nite out".

Start giving eachother more space.

This hsan;t happened to me on any intimate level, however it DID ruin a tight freidnship, when i moved in with a friend, we got jobs together..and after a couple mos, we just drifted apart...and then stopped talking..then i finally moved out cuz i couldn't take not talking anymore.

Instead of talking things out I just bailed.

But what u can do, instead is go out seperately. make plans...make her miss you.
Make her remember why you guys wanted to be around eachother to start with.

-Orbess

[anonymouswhitefemale]

Unrelated:

What does god say... Awesome track, Orbital are fantastic, nice to see a girl who likes them. They're special on so many levels... Just a shame they did their last gig in the USA (wtf?)

[anonymouswhitefemale]

Also, to be a nit-picker, it's:

"Are we here,? Are we unique? Are we something utterly special in the universe?or are we an example of many, many civilizations that have emerged, many many different life forms..."

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Also, to be a nit-picker, it's:

"Are we here,? Are we unique? Are we something utterly special in the universe?or are we an example of many, many civilizations that have emerged, many many different life forms..."

shucks? I'm unique? True..... well had to get one out of the three there, completely of the subject.

[The Orbess]

shucks? I'm unique? True..... well had to get one out of the three there, completely of the subject.

I'm here sometimes (mentally, and physically-lol)...i AM unique..and i AM utterly special!

**** str8!

-The Orbess

[CHANDLERS WISH]

I'm here sometimes (mentally, and physically-lol)...i AM unique..and i AM utterly special!

**** str8!

-The Orbess

lol. Good for you.... Well i wasn't going to say i was SPECIAL as well....

x

CW

[Uneeklyme]

Oh...and here I was thinking NU UH...Im Uneek.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Oh...and here I was thinking NU UH...Im Uneek.

Interesting when you say Uneek slowly sounds very very simular

[TheTickledHousewife]

Read "The Sex Starved Marriage" by Michelle Weiner Davis. It's an eye opener for those with low libidos and the ones they share a bed with!