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  • JILA
    Junior Member
    • Mar 2018
    • 1

    Should height change how sex feels

    I just started sleeping with a guy who is shorter than my last bf and sex feels different. They're about the same size maybe a little skinnier (down there) but it still feels like he is hitting my cervix more often. I wonder if this has to do with his height and the angle in which he's going in. Any suggestions for positions to try that won't allow him to go in as deep? I feel a soreness in what seems like my uterus sometimes during and after sex.
  • Texasred
    Veteran Member
    • Oct 2009
    • 1216

    At first i misjudged your question: I was about say it feels the same at 7000 feet in Taos as it does at sea level in New Orleans....

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    • jns
      Assistant Admin
      • Mar 2010
      • 8398

      Originally posted by JILA
      I just started sleeping with a guy who is shorter than my last bf and sex feels different. They're about the same size maybe a little skinnier (down there) but it still feels like he is hitting my cervix more often. I wonder if this has to do with his height and the angle in which he's going in. Any suggestions for positions to try that won't allow him to go in as deep? I feel a soreness in what seems like my uterus sometimes during and after sex.
      The one I always think of for sensation but limits penetration is like doggie style but with her flat on the bed and him on top of her. He buttocks will make it so he gets maybe an inch less penetration. With her legs slightly squeezed together, he still gets all of the sensation he would get from other positions. Otherwise, free standing positions where both are upright can limit penetration because he isn't pushing against a lot of resistance.
      I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
      ...
      Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?

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      • atskitty2
        Assistant Admin
        • Aug 2013
        • 4467

        It's probably less about his height and more about his technique.

        If it's making you uncomfortable, ask him to change something.

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        • Texasred
          Veteran Member
          • Oct 2009
          • 1216

          With him on top, try doing it with your legs together; that will limit the depth of penetration without reducing the sensations.

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