[Paganchick94]

Ok help im new to this
My fiancee and i have been together over 5 years moved in together 4 months ago and where we once had sex every week its now more like once a fortnight if not longer. I love him to pieces but its making me depressed im losing weight on slimming world to be healthy. I feel more attractive more sexually charged like a woman for once....but he is always tired he always falls asleep i try buying toys and lingerie but to no interest or appeal what am i doing wrong

[atskitty2]

Did the change in frequency happen suddenly, after you moved in together?

[jns]

Ok help im new to this
My fiancee and i have been together over 5 years moved in together 4 months ago and where we once had sex every week its now more like once a fortnight if not longer. I love him to pieces but its making me depressed im losing weight on slimming world to be healthy. I feel more attractive more sexually charged like a woman for once....but he is always tired he always falls asleep i try buying toys and lingerie but to no interest or appeal what am i doing wrong

Welcome to WH!

It may not be about you. What is going on in his life? More stress from his work? Longer hours? On medication? What?

[Paganchick94]

When we moved in it was less frequent we do talk but he just doesnt seem himself like he doesnt want to try

[atskitty2]

Are you sure he was ready to be living together?

What else changed around that time?

The more detail about what's going on in the relationship, the better we can help.

[muffin70]

Instead of wasting your time on expensive toys or lingerie, why not just ask him why he is not that interested in sex anymore?

As another poster said there are many things that can effect a mans sex drive - working long hours, erectile dysfunction, certain medications...etc....
but the first thing I'd do is talk to him about things... he might be under stress at work or something and men don't open up about their feelings and emotions as much as women do.

[baja]

Given that you and your fiancee have been together for over 5 years, then your communication should be great. If so, I'd recommend a heart-to-heart talk while focusing on what you love, the recent change, how you're feeling about it and if there is anything you can do to help. Be careful, as you women know, most guys generally can get defensive for the tiniest of things, so keep the focus off of him and on the relationship. He's definitely doing some introspection and I can speak from personal experience that moving in together can produce new dynamics that you may never see coming. If the conversation goes well, I'm also thinking that getting him out of the house, changing the routine and perhaps get back to some of the things that ignited the spark between you two five years ago would be an important reminder of who you both were then, who you are now, and why all the years in-between have been so great.

[liam]

No problems here. I've been using generic Viagra for a couple years and have had MUCH success. They're super inexpensive. They stay in your system longer and no side effects. 100mg is my pill of choice. I pop 1 about an hour before me and my lady about to throw down and I get so hard... I feel like my skins about to tear. Lol. I feel like Batman when we have sex. She literally has to push me off of her. She calls me the terminator. She says...she cums so much... That she loses count. Lol. by the way, I used to buy Viagra Pills at

[Angel Colvin]

There different ways you can improve your sexual life. For example, try out some new positions. Man can do exercises to increase his libido. Also there a lot of foods that boost Testosterone, you can make natural diets to promote sexual health.

[Texasred]

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