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Hi MotherofStorms,
I was rushed yesterday. I had planned to stop in for a quick visit.
Check WebMD for normal testosterone levels of women.
Women's hormone systems have to be the most complex system in the human body. One tiny chemical produced by hormonal glans becomes out of sync, and symptoms can be disproportionate. From what I understand, it is treatable. But it can be a long process. A friend's wife had a hysterectomy at a young age (her 30's). It took a year of trial and error to get her hormonal levels dialed in. During the process, she was a total you-know-what. It was worth it. When her levels were replaced by medicine, she became a sex-a-holic. My friend didn't want her treated for that ;-)
Again, I'm guessing that your lack of sex drive is hormonal.
My ex-g/f (we might be back on again) thought that she was a nymphomaniac when she was younger. She craved sex and couldn't get it often enough. She though that she had a mental problem. It wasn't until she was 40 that her endocrinologist diagnosed her with elevated testosterone. She refused treatment because she loved sex. She had the opposite condition. She told me that while she was in college, she have sex (if she had a b/f or FWB) many times a day and many times during each session. The silver lining is I've benefited from her hormonal imbalance because she's the best sex I've ever had.
One humorous story that she has told me many times and again last weekend involved her high school boyfriend. They would "study" upstairs in her bedroom with her parents downstairs. He was very afraid of her dad walking in. So she literally had to corner him. When she got naked, he couldn't resist all the while rushing to cum because he was afraid her dad would do a severe deatdown on him if he had caught them. When I picture it in my mind's eye, I always laugh. She was 15, and at that age learned the power her naked body had over boys and, later, men. Some two decades later, while both were married, he tried to hit her again. She blew him off. He's such a sissy that he wouldn't say hi to her when we saw him dining in the restaurant in which we were dining. That's why I can picture him in my mind's eye as a sissified baby.
Anyway, I know the effects of hormones on women, which is why I suggested that you see an endocrinologist.Comment
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